"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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its officially i can't close the deal

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tomcat2007

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Hey Guys,
First of all I have a confession, with this girl/about girls. The confession is I cannot close the deal and ask her to go out with me, I am trying, but i keep freezing up, getting bad nerves. I can have a normal conversation with her,(as with other girls in my class), i smile, nod , keep the eye contact and I have gotten her attention, but what can i do to close the deal(ask her out, without pysching myself out.) I am doing everything wrong, granted that now she acknowledges I exist and have her attention. Help would appreciated from all the Djs-but especially the senior or master ones. Thanks alot. Bottoms Up and Taker Easy. If shes easy taker twice! Cheers!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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kyphan

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Stop thinking about it. Or as Pook said, think "Oooh la la!" while you gaze at her. Then and only then will you ask her out.
 
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Whatcha scared of bro? You got her alone, staring into your eyes, hanging on your every word.... you really think she's gonna say no? I never understood this way of thinking.

Maybe the alternative will spook you into action: If you never close the deal for a date, you'll never be able to close the deal for sex, or engagement, or marriage, or kids, or grandkids, or any of those other great things in life. Are you gonna sit there and let the fear of a silly little rejection keep all those wonderful things out of your life? No? I hope not.
 
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