"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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its officially i can't close the deal

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tomcat2007

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Hey Guys,
First of all I have a confession, with this girl/about girls. The confession is I cannot close the deal and ask her to go out with me, I am trying, but i keep freezing up, getting bad nerves. I can have a normal conversation with her,(as with other girls in my class), i smile, nod , keep the eye contact and I have gotten her attention, but what can i do to close the deal(ask her out, without pysching myself out.) I am doing everything wrong, granted that now she acknowledges I exist and have her attention. Help would appreciated from all the Djs-but especially the senior or master ones. Thanks alot. Bottoms Up and Taker Easy. If shes easy taker twice! Cheers!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stop thinking about it. Or as Pook said, think "Oooh la la!" while you gaze at her. Then and only then will you ask her out.
 
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Whatcha scared of bro? You got her alone, staring into your eyes, hanging on your every word.... you really think she's gonna say no? I never understood this way of thinking.

Maybe the alternative will spook you into action: If you never close the deal for a date, you'll never be able to close the deal for sex, or engagement, or marriage, or kids, or grandkids, or any of those other great things in life. Are you gonna sit there and let the fear of a silly little rejection keep all those wonderful things out of your life? No? I hope not.
 
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