Thorninmyside
Master Don Juan
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I was thinking more in terms of if a person is not of value to me, then they are not of value and that's all I need to consider. I get to decide that, same as a girl does about me. And we both get to explore options rather than torture ourselves with only one option.So what you are saying is that as the source of value, you can project it onto objects.
So then why not project a super hottie 10 value onto a fattie who others might objectively think a 3?
The reality is we recognize value. It exists outside ourselves, and is what we strive for.