It's not juggling if you're only holding one ball

[Thorninmyside]

So what you are saying is that as the source of value, you can project it onto objects.

So then why not project a super hottie 10 value onto a fattie who others might objectively think a 3?

The reality is we recognize value. It exists outside ourselves, and is what we strive for.

I was thinking more in terms of if a person is not of value to me, then they are not of value and that's all I need to consider. I get to decide that, same as a girl does about me. And we both get to explore options rather than torture ourselves with only one option.