"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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its not fair that i'm still a virgin at 38

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its just not fair. i'm a nice guy, not a jerk.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tough **** bro. At this point just go get you a prostitute.
 
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Gman90 said:
tough **** bro. At this point just go get you a prostitute.
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i don't want a prostate. i want a real female. not paying any money for one. i take em out to the nicest retrants and even get em flowers. but instead of becoming my girlfriend they have sex with a jerk. it isn't fair. im so nice. but they go for the jerks who treat em like trash. it sucks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I was a virgin until 28.

I'll let you in on a secret. I'm not trying to harsh. You have my sympathy.

But the truth is...

People don't care if you EVER date or get a gf or get laid. Not even your own family.

For years, I thought someone would fix me up with a girl or some older lady would "break me in." It didn't happen. If I wanted to get laid, I had to go after it myself.

A certain percentage of guys are being kept out of the dating/sex pool by society.

You can either accept this and forget about women or bust your arse to improve yourself and don't stop until you get some action.

I chose the later. It's been a Hurculean effort, but you gotta do what you gotta do.

Don't get a hooker. Read my signature quote, and start your own "get laid mission." It might take six months or a year. But get it done.

Before you do that though, consider the no FAP and more importantly no porn challenge. You're probably whacking off to porn, and it's giving you a creepy vibe which is puss repellant.

Tips:

1. No fap and no porn
2. Exercise
3. Do what you can with your hair style wise
4. New clothes
5. Start taking a dance class so you can get comfortable with women and have better moves then the other chodes out there
6. Concurrent to all this is your ongoing get laid mission. Bang a 5 if you have to. It's ok. A 5 in your bed is better than a 10 on your computer.

Good luck man.
 
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