"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
its not fair that i'm still a virgin at 38
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mojogoat
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:crackup:Mojogoat said:Not to worry, just two more years 'til you get your own Hollywood blockbuster.
i don't want a prostate. i want a real female. not paying any money for one. i take em out to the nicest retrants and even get em flowers. but instead of becoming my girlfriend they have sex with a jerk. it isn't fair. im so nice. but they go for the jerks who treat em like trash. it sucks.Gman90 said:tough **** bro. At this point just go get you a prostitute.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I'll let you in on a secret. I'm not trying to harsh. You have my sympathy.
But the truth is...
People don't care if you EVER date or get a gf or get laid. Not even your own family.
For years, I thought someone would fix me up with a girl or some older lady would "break me in." It didn't happen. If I wanted to get laid, I had to go after it myself.
A certain percentage of guys are being kept out of the dating/sex pool by society.
You can either accept this and forget about women or bust your arse to improve yourself and don't stop until you get some action.
I chose the later. It's been a Hurculean effort, but you gotta do what you gotta do.
Don't get a hooker. Read my signature quote, and start your own "get laid mission." It might take six months or a year. But get it done.
Before you do that though, consider the no FAP and more importantly no porn challenge. You're probably whacking off to porn, and it's giving you a creepy vibe which is puss repellant.
Tips:
1. No fap and no porn
2. Exercise
3. Do what you can with your hair style wise
4. New clothes
5. Start taking a dance class so you can get comfortable with women and have better moves then the other chodes out there
6. Concurrent to all this is your ongoing get laid mission. Bang a 5 if you have to. It's ok. A 5 in your bed is better than a 10 on your computer.
Good luck man.