"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's not easy being CUTE

Kineti[C]harm

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Girls will often use cute instead of sexy/handsom/hot because it's a neutral word and doesn't "out" them too much.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by vdk
*Spiked hair is not bad. I guessing you have the wrong impression. Look at Colin Farrel in SWAT or The Recruit for inspiration. His hair is short but spiked well.

*DONT use gel. Use stuff like moulding paste which doesnt clog your hair and make it look plastic. In the longer run its cheaper since you only need to use a little bit of it compared to AFCs which use a bucket load of gel every morning. You can throw bricks at their heads and it would bouce off cause it is so hard.

* Like someone said, a little bit of facial would be good. Maybe 1-2mm in length just so its visible.
Yes, use wax or moldingpaste. Use something good like a shaper (They are expensive though like 25$+ for a jar)...

Gel is very out and it makes your hair glog and look stupid in compare.

When doing spikey looks make sure it looks "randomish" but with an intention. That is the random has it's reasons.
 

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Originally posted by Knicknack
you are a good looking guy.
:eek: Man, I need to move to the US. I'd clean up.
 

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*DONT use gel. Use stuff like moulding paste which doesnt clog your hair and make it look plastic. In the longer run its cheaper since you only need to use a little bit of it compared to AFCs which use a bucket load of gel every morning. You can throw bricks at their heads and it would bouce off cause it is so hard.
Is it just me or do you imply that everybody who uses gel puts a ****load of it in their hair, but everybody who uses moulding paste only takes a little of it and thus it looks good?
I prefer gel to moulding paste, but only use a little of it and girls like it.
 

THA REALNESS

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Spikey,quirky hair sh1t is like the calling card for metro's nowadays ..no offense.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by THA REALNESS
Spikey,quirky hair sh1t is like the calling card for metro's nowadays ..no offense.
This dude is fukkin right!;)

Dont do that shyt, crazy?
 

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Whats wrong with spikey hair? just as long as you dont overdo like really thick pike and really long.
 
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