Kineti[C]harm
Master Don Juan
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Girls will often use cute instead of sexy/handsom/hot because it's a neutral word and doesn't "out" them too much.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes, use wax or moldingpaste. Use something good like a shaper (They are expensive though like 25$+ for a jar)...Originally posted by vdk
*Spiked hair is not bad. I guessing you have the wrong impression. Look at Colin Farrel in SWAT or The Recruit for inspiration. His hair is short but spiked well.
*DONT use gel. Use stuff like moulding paste which doesnt clog your hair and make it look plastic. In the longer run its cheaper since you only need to use a little bit of it compared to AFCs which use a bucket load of gel every morning. You can throw bricks at their heads and it would bouce off cause it is so hard.
* Like someone said, a little bit of facial would be good. Maybe 1-2mm in length just so its visible.
Originally posted by Knicknack
you are a good looking guy.
Is it just me or do you imply that everybody who uses gel puts a ****load of it in their hair, but everybody who uses moulding paste only takes a little of it and thus it looks good?*DONT use gel. Use stuff like moulding paste which doesnt clog your hair and make it look plastic. In the longer run its cheaper since you only need to use a little bit of it compared to AFCs which use a bucket load of gel every morning. You can throw bricks at their heads and it would bouce off cause it is so hard.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
This dude is fukkin right!Originally posted by THA REALNESS
Spikey,quirky hair sh1t is like the calling card for metro's nowadays ..no offense.