"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yomismo

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I know more than one here is gonna hammer me for being such an idiot but I got completely mind blocked.
Dating this cheek who is divorced and with a child.Ex husband shows many times around.
She is always complaining about her hard life (child is diabetic) and how difficult is everything.
We couldnt make plans cause her parents coming over to spend new years eve.
Last saturday she gave me all the drama story again about hard life and quited communication till today that i contacted her again.Well,she went to another country on holidays with ex and son. She said long story and will tell you when back.They went into a hotel.
What kind of woman will go on holidays with ex into a hotel room with a child ? Or is it me being paranoia here ?
She said she missed me but didnt call till i did so and she shows up in another country with ex.
My first thought is that her parents were never coming, nobody books unexpected holidays last minute like this, at least no with ex's. This was already booked long ago...or am i being paranoia here ?
My thoughts? she is cheating on me. Any woman would have said no but take your child with you and she would have come to me here.For sure!!
Any thoughts ? Please spare me the "just use her" cause that i will !!!
I feel like an idiot, like a clown...i really thought she was straight...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dust 2 Dust

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Traveling anywhere with the ex is a deal breaker. If my girl ever traveled anywhere with her ex she wouldn't be my girl for long.
 
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