"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Its looking terrible, I know...

yomismo

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I know more than one here is gonna hammer me for being such an idiot but I got completely mind blocked.
Dating this cheek who is divorced and with a child.Ex husband shows many times around.
She is always complaining about her hard life (child is diabetic) and how difficult is everything.
We couldnt make plans cause her parents coming over to spend new years eve.
Last saturday she gave me all the drama story again about hard life and quited communication till today that i contacted her again.Well,she went to another country on holidays with ex and son. She said long story and will tell you when back.They went into a hotel.
What kind of woman will go on holidays with ex into a hotel room with a child ? Or is it me being paranoia here ?
She said she missed me but didnt call till i did so and she shows up in another country with ex.
My first thought is that her parents were never coming, nobody books unexpected holidays last minute like this, at least no with ex's. This was already booked long ago...or am i being paranoia here ?
My thoughts? she is cheating on me. Any woman would have said no but take your child with you and she would have come to me here.For sure!!
Any thoughts ? Please spare me the "just use her" cause that i will !!!
I feel like an idiot, like a clown...i really thought she was straight...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dust 2 Dust

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Traveling anywhere with the ex is a deal breaker. If my girl ever traveled anywhere with her ex she wouldn't be my girl for long.
 
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