"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its looking terrible, I know...

yomismo

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I know more than one here is gonna hammer me for being such an idiot but I got completely mind blocked.
Dating this cheek who is divorced and with a child.Ex husband shows many times around.
She is always complaining about her hard life (child is diabetic) and how difficult is everything.
We couldnt make plans cause her parents coming over to spend new years eve.
Last saturday she gave me all the drama story again about hard life and quited communication till today that i contacted her again.Well,she went to another country on holidays with ex and son. She said long story and will tell you when back.They went into a hotel.
What kind of woman will go on holidays with ex into a hotel room with a child ? Or is it me being paranoia here ?
She said she missed me but didnt call till i did so and she shows up in another country with ex.
My first thought is that her parents were never coming, nobody books unexpected holidays last minute like this, at least no with ex's. This was already booked long ago...or am i being paranoia here ?
My thoughts? she is cheating on me. Any woman would have said no but take your child with you and she would have come to me here.For sure!!
Any thoughts ? Please spare me the "just use her" cause that i will !!!
I feel like an idiot, like a clown...i really thought she was straight...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dust 2 Dust

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Traveling anywhere with the ex is a deal breaker. If my girl ever traveled anywhere with her ex she wouldn't be my girl for long.
 
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