Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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It's either one or the other

ketostix

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My personal experience is either women want to fvck me or they totally basically hate me. I don't have much middle ground. The problem is from experience I've never gotten anything from a girl that acted like she hated me,Yet I've seen girls give this similar feigned hatered to other guys and they hooked up. So it's not so simple to conclude that that's this "disinterest" isn't at least in part sexual tension that I could somehow capitalize on.

To give some backstory, I'm a "mature" male and most of my PU is at night clubs on college aged girls.

Anyone else have thid experience and can give me so feedback?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes. I should put a detailed this story in the tips section at some point:

About 4 years ago, I had a nice weekend where I met 2 redhead HB7's.

One was at a concert, we bumped into eachother, thumbwrestled, then ended up sitting around talking about where we were from, found out that we both grew up in big families, and talked a lot about what we had in common.

The other was at a BBQ. She was a ball-busting feminist president of the campus bisexual alliance. I was staring at her large tits, when she said, "WTF are you staring at?" I said, "you started it," or something like that. We started arguing, and eventually I said, "look, if I'm staring at your body, then there is clearly something you did to provoke it. You know, just like rape."

She said, "I'm not even talking to you anymore," got up and went inside.

Any guess as to which one I was banging 72 hours later?
 

ketostix

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Ok thanks for the example. I guess what I was getting at is I'll approach girls in the same manner and she'll be either disinterrested very quickly, sometimes very hostile for no reason or they'll be putty in my hands to game.

I don't really have any female friends and I don't get into the friend's zone. It's either sex or nothing. I guess I'm saying there seems to be such a dichotomy of one or the other with no middle gound.
 
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