"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It's either one or the other

ketostix

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My personal experience is either women want to fvck me or they totally basically hate me. I don't have much middle ground. The problem is from experience I've never gotten anything from a girl that acted like she hated me,Yet I've seen girls give this similar feigned hatered to other guys and they hooked up. So it's not so simple to conclude that that's this "disinterest" isn't at least in part sexual tension that I could somehow capitalize on.

To give some backstory, I'm a "mature" male and most of my PU is at night clubs on college aged girls.

Anyone else have thid experience and can give me so feedback?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes. I should put a detailed this story in the tips section at some point:

About 4 years ago, I had a nice weekend where I met 2 redhead HB7's.

One was at a concert, we bumped into eachother, thumbwrestled, then ended up sitting around talking about where we were from, found out that we both grew up in big families, and talked a lot about what we had in common.

The other was at a BBQ. She was a ball-busting feminist president of the campus bisexual alliance. I was staring at her large tits, when she said, "WTF are you staring at?" I said, "you started it," or something like that. We started arguing, and eventually I said, "look, if I'm staring at your body, then there is clearly something you did to provoke it. You know, just like rape."

She said, "I'm not even talking to you anymore," got up and went inside.

Any guess as to which one I was banging 72 hours later?
 

ketostix

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Ok thanks for the example. I guess what I was getting at is I'll approach girls in the same manner and she'll be either disinterrested very quickly, sometimes very hostile for no reason or they'll be putty in my hands to game.

I don't really have any female friends and I don't get into the friend's zone. It's either sex or nothing. I guess I'm saying there seems to be such a dichotomy of one or the other with no middle gound.
 
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