"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's either one or the other

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My personal experience is either women want to fvck me or they totally basically hate me. I don't have much middle ground. The problem is from experience I've never gotten anything from a girl that acted like she hated me,Yet I've seen girls give this similar feigned hatered to other guys and they hooked up. So it's not so simple to conclude that that's this "disinterest" isn't at least in part sexual tension that I could somehow capitalize on.

To give some backstory, I'm a "mature" male and most of my PU is at night clubs on college aged girls.

Anyone else have thid experience and can give me so feedback?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes. I should put a detailed this story in the tips section at some point:

About 4 years ago, I had a nice weekend where I met 2 redhead HB7's.

One was at a concert, we bumped into eachother, thumbwrestled, then ended up sitting around talking about where we were from, found out that we both grew up in big families, and talked a lot about what we had in common.

The other was at a BBQ. She was a ball-busting feminist president of the campus bisexual alliance. I was staring at her large tits, when she said, "WTF are you staring at?" I said, "you started it," or something like that. We started arguing, and eventually I said, "look, if I'm staring at your body, then there is clearly something you did to provoke it. You know, just like rape."

She said, "I'm not even talking to you anymore," got up and went inside.

Any guess as to which one I was banging 72 hours later?
 
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Ok thanks for the example. I guess what I was getting at is I'll approach girls in the same manner and she'll be either disinterrested very quickly, sometimes very hostile for no reason or they'll be putty in my hands to game.

I don't really have any female friends and I don't get into the friend's zone. It's either sex or nothing. I guess I'm saying there seems to be such a dichotomy of one or the other with no middle gound.
 
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