"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It's better to be a NATURAL...then being creepy.

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have you guys notice that having this kinde of knowledge is in fact creepy.

think of the times girls will think it was spontaneous / fate, but in fact it was all masterminded by knowledge of seduction.

What do you guys say, creepy or not?

Better if it was natural right ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Always better to be natural. Yeah, it's kind of creepy. I just asked the mod to delete my account.
 

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Yeah, but all this talk about being natural, being alpha, trusting the gut, just be confident comes from the fact that you first used the material to know what the f**k to do. Otherwise you wouldn't have a clue about what you were supposed to do and just keep wondering to yourself what the f**k should I do.
...Which brings you back to the material.

Anyway, it's easy to become natural after you know how to handle yourself, but that only comes with practice. In fact it's only natural that you become natural after that. It's like pook said, do not be attained by formula.

It happens to everyone, but everyone must use the training wheels before riding a bike.
 

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I guess, thing is I have been into this for over 7 years and my knowledge/experience..heck, I even make prostitutes fall in love with me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lotus Effect said:
It happens to everyone, but everyone must use the training wheels before riding a bike.
Yes, I've seen it when I drive by a school or in a neighborhood (kids off from school, hookey, or for the Summer break whatever, the weekend) and a dude will be riding his bike slowly and circling her allthewhile macking on a girl walking (wherever she's walking) keeping her 'not bored'

You must catch her in her 'bored' times and keep her 'not bored' try to fvck her in her bored times, Not when she's having more fun than YOU.

Then there's the fisherman's analogy. Is he being 'natural' using Every bait imaginable to lure the fish to its demise (or he could release it, but he could scare it to death/shock the fish if he just throws it back into the water and it dies of shock, instead of gently releasing it back into the water).

It's kinda diabolical, these fishermen, who Use Every tactic to rack up as many big fish as they can, but that's life, you gotta survive, you gotta pass on your genes. If you want King Arthur and the knight's court fair-tale land, then go live that, if you got the money and the family lineage to live a Senator's life or royal life where you can play in that fairy-tale world, a kinda Heaven on Earth outside of nature.

So either play by nature (the animal kingdom) or play by unnatural methods of purity (picket white fence life).
 

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Women learned their behaviors and tactics naturally through a natural, gradual socialization structure that they found themselves woven into. Most of us men have had no exposure to any kind of natural structure.

Therefore, just like walking, riding a bike, sports, etc., we need to learn these things and internalize them through a formal structure. Once they are learned, they become internalized and calibrated to our personalities.

Therefore, it's not creepy at all but rather a learning process. Throughout history some men have learned to create illusions with which to captivate women, and most have not. What women crave is illusions, and not flesh and blood men. Seduction has always been about creating perceptions and harnessing the art of influence.
 

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I'm a natural at making my friends laugh but that doesn't mean I can do stand up comedy without a routine.

I'm a natural at writing and expressing ideas but that doesn't mean I can knock out a 120 page screenplay without planning, structure and ruthless editing.

I'm naturally fit and healthy but that doesn't mean I can run a marathon without gradually building up to it.

What's creepy about wanting to understand women better?

I love women. I love women like some guys love cars. I just want to know what makes them tick so I can drive them better. :)
 

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user name said:
I'm a natural at making my friends laugh but that doesn't mean I can do stand up comedy without a routine.

I'm a natural at writing and expressing ideas but that doesn't mean I can knock out a 120 page screenplay without planning, structure and ruthless editing.

I'm naturally fit and healthy but that doesn't mean I can run a marathon without gradually building up to it.

What's creepy about wanting to understand women better?

I love women. I love women like some guys love cars. I just want to know what makes them tick so I can drive them better. :)
Amen!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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