"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it's as easy as...

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at the library again and i seen this hot blonde working here for a while. so anyway i saw her putting a book on the shelf. i said, "excuse me." really cool like. i used my finger too, as in to come closer.

she had a tiny shock look on her face. something new. i asked her what was up with all the workers being students and she told me why... i was like "oh okay, thanks just wanted to know." she walked off but quickly turned back to talk more about it. i asked, "how old are you?" she said: "23" and i said, "you look 18." typically she agreed saying "i know" - cheeky b!tch. - came back closer saying: "it'll be good for me when i'm older!" with a slight laugh. i says; "for sure!" that was it. but see, at least now when i see her working i can build it up from there and eventually grab her number. but i ain't going to as she's not my type even though she is like HB8/9. just doesn't work for me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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to show some people how easy it is to start conversations and give them an idea. i'm sorry should i be posting only if i get laid?
 

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No, but you should post about stuff that's hopefully going somewhere. I mean, I talk to girls that I don't like all the time, but I don't write about them. I'm sure most of the guys here can talk to girls they don't like. Its no pressure then.
 
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