"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it's as easy as...

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at the library again and i seen this hot blonde working here for a while. so anyway i saw her putting a book on the shelf. i said, "excuse me." really cool like. i used my finger too, as in to come closer.

she had a tiny shock look on her face. something new. i asked her what was up with all the workers being students and she told me why... i was like "oh okay, thanks just wanted to know." she walked off but quickly turned back to talk more about it. i asked, "how old are you?" she said: "23" and i said, "you look 18." typically she agreed saying "i know" - cheeky b!tch. - came back closer saying: "it'll be good for me when i'm older!" with a slight laugh. i says; "for sure!" that was it. but see, at least now when i see her working i can build it up from there and eventually grab her number. but i ain't going to as she's not my type even though she is like HB8/9. just doesn't work for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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to show some people how easy it is to start conversations and give them an idea. i'm sorry should i be posting only if i get laid?
 

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No, but you should post about stuff that's hopefully going somewhere. I mean, I talk to girls that I don't like all the time, but I don't write about them. I'm sure most of the guys here can talk to girls they don't like. Its no pressure then.
 
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