"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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at the library again and i seen this hot blonde working here for a while. so anyway i saw her putting a book on the shelf. i said, "excuse me." really cool like. i used my finger too, as in to come closer.

she had a tiny shock look on her face. something new. i asked her what was up with all the workers being students and she told me why... i was like "oh okay, thanks just wanted to know." she walked off but quickly turned back to talk more about it. i asked, "how old are you?" she said: "23" and i said, "you look 18." typically she agreed saying "i know" - cheeky b!tch. - came back closer saying: "it'll be good for me when i'm older!" with a slight laugh. i says; "for sure!" that was it. but see, at least now when i see her working i can build it up from there and eventually grab her number. but i ain't going to as she's not my type even though she is like HB8/9. just doesn't work for me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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to show some people how easy it is to start conversations and give them an idea. i'm sorry should i be posting only if i get laid?
 

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No, but you should post about stuff that's hopefully going somewhere. I mean, I talk to girls that I don't like all the time, but I don't write about them. I'm sure most of the guys here can talk to girls they don't like. Its no pressure then.
 
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