"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Its a waste of time having a ex girlfriend around?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I personally hate all of my exes, but its always a good thing to be on good terms with them, I regret each mean thing I've said to all of them, I really do. It did nothing but hurt them and make me look really really patheticAce of Flames said:How could having an ex hanging around NOT be a waste of time? I mean, she's your ex. She's over and done with. I don't get this question.
I'm still debating whether I should still talk to her or not. I spoke to her on the phone, just normal convo. I sent her a message, we just said what we been up to. It ended with her saying "i'm sure you'll find someone that'll make you 3x happier than i did" (I had told her to read my blog, it had a LITTLE bit about us breaking up, I kinda showed just a tiny bit of pain).
I really don't know what her response really was saying. When I say that, I mean, I'm usually able to judge how a girl is feeling thru what she says but since I can't hear her voice, I dunno.
But right now, I'm not giving her any attention (only attention is putting her in my top 16 friends list with her at like 12). In the process of moving on, but still hoping that sometime she'll call me up.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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lol i knowBigg Boss said:I don't hate my ex's. blah im gay.
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they fuk up too much to even given em; the chance to talk wit us
if a bittchj fuks up once shes done simple is that, u gotta get ur value up if u talkin to a ex that cheated on u
but like u guys said if u TRUELY left on good terms.. you should be devleping the fuk buddie relationship
screw this pupply love bulll**** friendship
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