"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Its a waste of time having a ex girlfriend around?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I personally hate all of my exes, but its always a good thing to be on good terms with them, I regret each mean thing I've said to all of them, I really do. It did nothing but hurt them and make me look really really patheticAce of Flames said:How could having an ex hanging around NOT be a waste of time? I mean, she's your ex. She's over and done with. I don't get this question.
I'm still debating whether I should still talk to her or not. I spoke to her on the phone, just normal convo. I sent her a message, we just said what we been up to. It ended with her saying "i'm sure you'll find someone that'll make you 3x happier than i did" (I had told her to read my blog, it had a LITTLE bit about us breaking up, I kinda showed just a tiny bit of pain).
I really don't know what her response really was saying. When I say that, I mean, I'm usually able to judge how a girl is feeling thru what she says but since I can't hear her voice, I dunno.
But right now, I'm not giving her any attention (only attention is putting her in my top 16 friends list with her at like 12). In the process of moving on, but still hoping that sometime she'll call me up.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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lol i knowBigg Boss said:I don't hate my ex's. blah im gay.
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they fuk up too much to even given em; the chance to talk wit us
if a bittchj fuks up once shes done simple is that, u gotta get ur value up if u talkin to a ex that cheated on u
but like u guys said if u TRUELY left on good terms.. you should be devleping the fuk buddie relationship
screw this pupply love bulll**** friendship
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