Purefilth
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But Its the womans job to give him something to respect.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Its a mans job to RESPECT a woman.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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True story...
European-DJ
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To be honest, i think it is Vice Versa.
Purefilth
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In fairness it does seem to be a neverending cycle.European-DJ said:
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Catch 22
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
VikingKing
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everything is a paradox. the only thing in life that is consistent is change.
Peaks&Valleys
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never mind
but yeah, agree. Show respect, be the better person, once she show's disrescpect in you or herself, then be free to walk away....with a clear conscious. Let her fvck it up.
but yeah, agree. Show respect, be the better person, once she show's disrescpect in you or herself, then be free to walk away....with a clear conscious. Let her fvck it up.
Biblicaly speaking... No. God commands man to love his wife and for a woman to respect her husband.
Ephesians 5:33 says
"A husband must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."
Of course if you don't believe in jesus then this doesnt apply to you. But when a woman feels unloved she gets naturally disrespectful and when a man feels un loved he gets naturally unloving. Its a vicious cyclle and that's why god commands a woman to respect her husband and a man to love his wife due to our natural tendencies as men to become unloving and to women to become disrespectful.
Ephesians 5:33 says
"A husband must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."
Of course if you don't believe in jesus then this doesnt apply to you. But when a woman feels unloved she gets naturally disrespectful and when a man feels un loved he gets naturally unloving. Its a vicious cyclle and that's why god commands a woman to respect her husband and a man to love his wife due to our natural tendencies as men to become unloving and to women to become disrespectful.
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On Point! Rep coming your way.Epimanes said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
YES. And having sex like rabbits doesn't cut it.Purefilth said:
A real lady will automatically be treated with respect by everybody, even big rude guys who usually treat women like crap. It's like they can sense that she is different.
Ladies are different than women and much harder to find.
Yep... Only the delusional bishes, sluts and retards complain about a lack of respect, and feel entitled to a "good man". Never fails. They simply don't understand that they're worthless, attract what they are, and treated as they deserve.Darth said:
Biologically speaking, a man's only job is to spread his seed. A women's job is to help him reproduce and raise the off spring so that they can also reproduce..everything else is just smoke and mirrors or stuff that your parents and society has drilled into you.