"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Its a mans job to RESPECT a woman.

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But Its the womans job to give him something to respect.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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European-DJ said:
To be honest, i think it is Vice Versa.
In fairness it does seem to be a neverending cycle.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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never mind

but yeah, agree. Show respect, be the better person, once she show's disrescpect in you or herself, then be free to walk away....with a clear conscious. Let her fvck it up.
 

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Biblicaly speaking... No. God commands man to love his wife and for a woman to respect her husband.
Ephesians 5:33 says
"A husband must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."

Of course if you don't believe in jesus then this doesnt apply to you. But when a woman feels unloved she gets naturally disrespectful and when a man feels un loved he gets naturally unloving. Its a vicious cyclle and that's why god commands a woman to respect her husband and a man to love his wife due to our natural tendencies as men to become unloving and to women to become disrespectful.
 

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It's a woman's job to respect a man.
 

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Epimanes said:
Biblicaly speaking... No. God commands man to love his wife and for a woman to respect her husband.
Ephesians 5:33 says
"A husband must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."

Of course if you don't believe in jesus then this doesnt apply to you. But when a woman feels unloved she gets naturally disrespectful and when a man feels un loved he gets naturally unloving. Its a vicious cyclle and that's why god commands a woman to respect her husband and a man to love his wife due to our natural tendencies as men to become unloving and to women to become disrespectful.
On Point! Rep coming your way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Purefilth said:
But Its the womans job to give him something to respect.
YES. And having sex like rabbits doesn't cut it.

A real lady will automatically be treated with respect by everybody, even big rude guys who usually treat women like crap. It's like they can sense that she is different.

Ladies are different than women and much harder to find.
 

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Darth said:
YES. And having sex like rabbits doesn't cut it.

A real lady will automatically be treated with respect by everybody, even big rude guys who usually treat women like crap. It's like they can sense that she is different.

Ladies are different than women and much harder to find.
Yep... Only the delusional bishes, sluts and retards complain about a lack of respect, and feel entitled to a "good man". Never fails. They simply don't understand that they're worthless, attract what they are, and treated as they deserve.
 

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Biologically speaking, a man's only job is to spread his seed. A women's job is to help him reproduce and raise the off spring so that they can also reproduce..everything else is just smoke and mirrors or stuff that your parents and society has drilled into you.
 
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