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It's 2021, and the height-shaming is reaching catatrosphic levels

BadBoy89

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Many men are SUPER sensitive and/or insecure about their personal height
Men may be super sensitive because it's what women want.






 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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LMAO, this is why you all are losers: imagining the world is against you and failing before you even begin.

I played two sports in high school, had many friends well over 6 feet tall. They were just considered dorks and the girls weren't attracted to them. The varsity starting quarterback sometimes had a bit more pull, but not by much. The team was actually pretty good but football wasn't a big deal, except maybe to the football coach. That fat f-cker thought he was hot sh-t lol. The only tall guys who were popular with girls, were popular because they were good looking. Keep in mind, the average high school boy is what, 5'6"? 5'7"? There weren't many kids 6 feet and above. 5'10" was considered very tall.

Same thing in college: most of the D1 athletes were just anonymous joes. Sure, they could attract random fatties at the club, but overall were no more likely to have a girlfriend, much less a hot girlfriend, than a good looking guy of normal height. The D1 athletes with hot girlfriends were generally star players, the 2 or 3 best players on a team. Even this didn't happen with any regularity unless the team was doing particularly well. Otherwise, the women just didn't give a sh-t.

Even many of the star players weren't that interested in tail: they were focused on just putting in their time before collecting their millions as pros (before they lost it all again a decade later).

Take a look at any pro football or basketball roster and ask yourself how many of them are good looking. The answer is going to be close enough to zero to make the question not even worth asking. Take a look at the girlfriends and wives of the tallest players in the NBA. Take a look at any of the wives and girlfriends of ANY player in the nba: how many of them are hot? Most of them are only "hot" if you are into gigantic booties, geri curls and bad weaves.

Post college, again, I know tons of tall guys and very few of them are dating hot women. Most are single. Some are married, and their wives are average looking, passable in looks. There are a few very tall, jacked guys: some of them have steady girlfriends who are cute, but not especially hot. Others favor quantity, and f-ck a string of fatties.

My adult friends and acquaintances who are marrying hot women are almost exclusively military.

You guys very obviously don't get out much, have few friends, and are deeply propagandized with stupid blackpill memes. This manosphere sh-t is not based upon reality. It's all based upon memes/stereotypes drawn from worst case scenarios, not the overall reality of large populations.

The pool of exceptionally hot women is actually very, very small. And many of the hottest women look like absolute train wrecks without the right makeup, the correct lighting, the proper angles, etc. If they CAN look hot without makeup (very unlikely) their window is short: often just 5 years tops, with a very small percentage who can stretch it out to a decade. After that, their looks fall off a cliff, especially if they are white.

tl, dr: good looks trump all.
 
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You missed what I was trying to convey. Others will too. That’s ok. I know some will get it. I shared what was in my heart to say. Everyone has their own perspective and experience. That’s life. Some will understand what I shared. Some won’t ever. Life moves on. I wish everyone here the best.

I will say this again...
Best to be careful of arguing for your perceived limitations.
These guys are hardcore blackpillers. The mistake they make is that they take the most extreme scenarios and generalize rare cases to the entire population. They're just not very smart, and can't be reasoned with. They're also very lazy, and fear any degree of rejection, so they come up with some ridiculous bogeymen: "boo hoo hoo, women only date men 7 feet and over."

They like wallowing in their pity party and playing victim. F-ck 'em. I say let 'em.
 

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You missed what I was trying to convey. Others will too. That’s ok. I know some will get it. I shared what was in my heart to say. Everyone has their own perspective and experience. That’s life. Some will understand what I shared. Some won’t ever. Life moves on. I wish everyone here the best.

I will say this again...
Best to be careful of arguing for your perceived limitations.
Not arguing perceiving limitations. I’m arguing facts.

Science and studies have shown taller men are more successful in dating and in life. Shouldn’t everyone go tell women and science to change their thinking, and THEN come talk to short men?

Short men can fight one, maybe two girls. They can’t fight the science and the entire system.
 

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I say add "height boosters" in your shoes. I wear doc martins with added " height soles" that makes it 5ft9 instead of 5ft8.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You have missed what I conveyed
Perhaps written this way will make it more clear to you...
Best to be careful of arguing for your limitations.

Hint...
Gathering and then presenting facts to argue your limitation is... 100% arguing for your limitation.

Continue in life as you wish. Your choice.

Be aware that...
While maintaining *that* focus one cannot simultaneously transcend victim consciousness. Perspective will remain in victimhood. Life will be experienced as a victim.

(In case there is question, ^^^^ *that* focus = arguing for one’s limitations)
I'm not sure what you heck you are talking about. I'm presenting FACTS and SCIENCE and you are saying 100% its arguing a man's limitation.

I'm just stating a FACT. I'm not arguing limitations, victimhood, or sob stories. I'm saying, based on SCIENTIFIC EVIDENCE and FACTS, that women LIKE and PREFER taller men.

If you want to argue this FACT, present a counter-argument to it.
 

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You're playing the game of statistics.

If I am short, I am less likely to be attractive to women.
If I have a reserved personality, I am less likely to get noticed by women.
If I am born in India, I have a lot further to go if I play the game of capitalism.
If I am an average looking woman, I am less likely to get attention from men.

Just because women ON AVERAGE prefer taller men, does not mean that it will be your defining experience.
Perchance think of it as a stage of evolution. Most people you meet will define you by your physical form and mental representation.
It is likely that you perceive the world this way.
In that arena, it is a limitation. On those planes of reality, it is a limitation.
If you want to live your life letting the average person define you, then go ahead.
If the culture you live in decreases your market value by a few basis points on the mate exchange as a baseline, why let that define you?
It is what it is. Move to the east and it flips the other direction.

If I see the world from my limitations or my weaknesses, they cloud my vision. They poision my mind. They proliferate. They become a filter through which I take in the world.
If you take these facts so seriously, then they will define you.

If you were taller, you'd have a better baseline playing the game of "being successful with women".
So you've got a little bit of a steeper hill. Perhaps you have positive innate qualities. You won't know unless you're aware.


But in the face of love, these details cease to matter.
And if you let it define your life up until that point, your existence could be too tainted to love and receive love.

On average, people have it worse.
Either you get what you want, or you grow.
It's your work. It's not your limitation.
Your work is to transcend it.
 

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Don’t get stuck on what doesn’t work well for you. Instead choose to focus on your assets (your positives).
Could rephrase that as "Don't get insecure thoughts about what you're insecure about." Obvious advice, but not really helpful advice.

I think most men who complain, comment, or vent from a fatalistic perspective about height-shaming and women's preference for taller men aren't necessarily seeking advice. They want acknowledgement that the problem exists, and their viewpoint validated, rather then it "fixed" for them and others sharing why it's only in their mind. You're a woman, you should know how that works lol.

Women prefer taller men, all else being equal. It is what it is.

If you're a 5'3 man, your options will be severely limited compared to that of a tall or average height man, despite those on here whose 5'0 friend also happens to be the best player they've ever seen. The reality is you will be disqualified by many women on height alone. That doesn't mean at 5'3 you should resign yourself to a fatalistic attitude about your height...

Those who adopt a fatalism outlook often have their confidence negatively impacted along with it, which just needlessly creates additional constraints on top of height.

A man can accept height as an objective limitation while also optimizing other aspects of himself in order to play the best hand with the genetic cards he's been dealt.

Height is a limitation. With some women a man may be able to mitigate it to a degree, but with others they will be inevitably disqualified.
 

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I’m 6’3 with some sneakers 6’4. Personally honest I never felt like height helped in anyway.

I find my hairy chest and white skin attracts Arab women and Asian but that’s about it.
 

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I’m 6’3 with some sneakers 6’4. Personally honest I never felt like height helped in anyway.
This is the inverse to when guys who are below average height say that they've never felt like height hindered them in any way.

Unless a girl is blatantly direct and sincere with you, you can't ever be certain as to how your height affects the interest & attraction of the girls you interact with, except for the fact it does at some point.

Same goes with hair. I shave my head and have always shaved it since I was a teenager because of cowlicks. I've personally never felt that a shaved head has ever helped nor hindered me with any particular girl, but I'm sure it has. I've probably attracted girls for looking bad ass and I've probably been disqualified simply because of a shaved head as well.

Some guys can say that height or hair doesn't impact attraction & interest from women, but all else being equal, the typical women with options will prefer a tall man with a full head of hair.

But my point @Zontyy being that you rarely will ever know why you are truly disqualified by a women. In many cases, being not something is helpful. In other words, being tall didn't help you per se, but being not short did, if that makes sense.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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LMAO, this is why you all are losers: imagining the world is against you and failing before you even begin.

tl, dr: good looks trump all.
They like wallowing in their pity party and playing victim. F-ck 'em. I say let 'em.
As harsh as your delivery methods might be, I'm gonna have to agree with you on this one.

There is way too much BMW going on here(B1tch Moan Whining) and have it take up 7 pages of something none of us can control?

How about concentrate on the stuff you CAN control and forget about the stuff you can't?

My dad always told me to be the best I can be at the stuff I'm in control of so much so that the other person will no longer see any biases, perceived deficiencies, differences. This includes having a great personality and knowing your $hit, as well as dressing and looking the best you can be. Doing this will bring down walls and make them forget that they are talking to a short guy, colored/ethinic person, person with a mole or birth mark, etc.
 

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His "scientific sources" are GQ, psychologytoday, askmen, americantall, the conversation and washington post.

Dude, you forgot mad magazine, graffiti on toilet stalls and the authoritative opinion of the homeless drunks downtown.

You see, these are the effects of flouridating the public water supply....

Men may be super sensitive because it's what women want.






 

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His "scientific sources" are GQ, psychologytoday, askmen, americantall, the conversation and washington post.

Dude, you forgot mad magazine, graffiti on toilet stalls and the authoritative opinion of the homeless drunks downtown.

You see, these are the effects of flouridating the public water supply....

Dude you see the effects of being lazy and entitled.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If you are having issues with your height work on your voice.

 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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