"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It takes a real man to date a single mom.

Robert28

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She is 20, that kid is at least 1.5 years. She's got plenty of time to correct her mistakes and get her s**t together. Getting off Tinder and focusing on her kid or at least not exposing him on Tinger would be a good start.

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That takes inward reflection. Women aren’t capable of that until well into their 40’s and 50’s
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Robert28

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shes not though, a girl i know is 37 with a toddler, she navigates the dating scene like a born again virgin

Men as a group are pathetic
Oh I’ve seen that too. I went on a date with a 39yr old woman who was bragging about all her fwb’s over the years. So weird to talk about on a first date, selling yourself as not commitment worthy and a wh0re.
 

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Oh I’ve seen that too. I went on a date with a 39yr old woman who was bragging about all her fwb’s over the years. So weird to talk about on a first date, selling yourself as not commitment worthy and a wh0re.
You met her from Tinder?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I‘ve also screenshoted one for amusement…

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„Searching for a man that knows, what he wants in life and who can keep up with me intelectually.

Me:
- Mom of a little son
- Working 70% in a leading position
- I don‘t like to give up control“
 

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Boyos, it takes an ultra-masculine, ultra high testosterone man to step up to the plate and raise Tyrone's kid.....

Do you have what it takes? Cause I sure as hell don't...

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She will find a long term boyfriend. Men are thirsty.

Despite her being 20, I'm not interested.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A lot of hate for single moms.Let me give you a real life example. A friend of mine,with a kid,her husband (who she was very happy with) died unexpectedly and very early,of cancer. Very sad.Obviously a good few months passed,maybe a year,and then she was open,and of course,wanting to date again...should she never date again,just because she has a kid ? Should no man ever touch her,ever,just because of this ? Come on.Not every single mum is on the **** carousel,by choice or otherwise
 

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It takes a stupid man to date a single mom.
I don't disagree but look around. Most man can't pull let alone top form smv 18-23. Most guys aren't getting laid so they compromise integrity if cute single mom comes around.

Simply put they compete.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Boyos, it takes an ultra-masculine, ultra high testosterone man to step up to the plate and raise Tyrone's kid.....

Do you have what it takes? Cause I sure as hell don't...

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Wow, if a white guy somehow bucked up for this sheet, it would be immediately obvious that he is a cuck. :mad: :mad:
 

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I‘ve also screenshoted one for amusement…

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„Searching for a man that knows, what he wants in life and who can keep up with me intelectually.

Me:
- Mom of a little son
- Working 70% in a leading position
- I don‘t like to give up control“
At least the race of her spawn matches her own. :rolleyes:
 

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It's funny how they want a guy with a job AFTER they get knocked up by a deadbeat and need you to raise their kid.
This is a myth. They don’t need you to raise it, they just need you to foot the bills. If they can accomplish this without a relationship or sex then even better.
 

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This is a myth. They don’t need you to raise it, they just need you to foot the bills. If they can accomplish this without a relationship or sex then even better.
Fine, then make the whole relationship transactional. I have no problem supporting single mommies at the nudie bar or brothel. :cool:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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