"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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qlo

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what's the use of quitting again?
i didnt notice an energy and confidence boost o_O it's just a placebo effect i think.

and yes i quitted long enough (22 days, and some couple of times a bit less) and yes i did it more than once a day ;x

now i try to do it only once a day, and don't do it every day either.

but what's the use of quitting?
 

manbearpig

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I really don't know glo. I tried this, and I made it right under 10 days(I masturbated yesterday evening), and I gotta say part of why I gave in to the urge was because I wasn't really getting anything out of it, other than feeling frustrated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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twilight

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Day 2/21

Feels great to be back on track...vivid dreams and more energy already...had a date last week and I have a date this week as well, through more approaches I'm gonna get up to "dating" 2-3 times a week.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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twilight

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Day 3/21...Feeling really good (Even tho the Mavs lost :cry: ) lol...Looking forward to this weekend to get more approaches done...
 

OzyBoy

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I think the last time i did it was about 15 days ago and the funny thing is i haven't being trying to stop, i just haven't done it and i don't really feel the urge to do it either. I feel pretty good though, i might try keep it like this but i won't be angry at myself if i do it again.. :rockon:
 

twilight

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Day 4/21...Hangin out with a girl tonight I used to hang out with almost a year ago but made a lot of newbie mistakes on haha...my game has elevated a lot since then, let's see how this goes...Feelin great & energetic, I'm a lot more productive now...I woke up early and got a ton of things done this morning.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Adone

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souporman said:
Most of you aren't going to get that huge energy boost that you expected. As long as you weren't masturbating daily or more then your energy levels arent very depleted in the first place.

Somebody can explain this? I usually masturbate AT LEAST 2 times a day although I have sex AT LEAST 3-4 times a week and I would do it a lot more if I wasn't so busy. When I'm home (illness, skipping school, whatever), I sometimes masturbate more than 6 times a day.
Nevertheless, people say that I'm too active and I should relax a bit because I tend to jump around 24/7.

Anyway, since I haven't been masturbating for 2 days in a row (and if I resist tonight, it will be easy to get to 5, because I'm at a sleepover party tomorrow night), I want to try this stuff, hopefully something good will happen, whatever it may be.

I'm about to complete day 3 of my first period!
 

Potbelly

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Day 1! I'm going to finish 21 days this time. Then I'll do 21 days again. Then I plan on releasing it weekly if not more, but only in a gal :) So basiclaly, so jerkin it until college when I can get some pvssy
 

twilight

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Day 5/21...Last night went pretty well, went to party and got mega social proof...doing some sarging tonight. Dreams were pretty vivid last night tho I don't remember them. To Potbelly: Man I miss the college days!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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