"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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qlo

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what's the use of quitting again?
i didnt notice an energy and confidence boost o_O it's just a placebo effect i think.

and yes i quitted long enough (22 days, and some couple of times a bit less) and yes i did it more than once a day ;x

now i try to do it only once a day, and don't do it every day either.

but what's the use of quitting?
 

manbearpig

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I really don't know glo. I tried this, and I made it right under 10 days(I masturbated yesterday evening), and I gotta say part of why I gave in to the urge was because I wasn't really getting anything out of it, other than feeling frustrated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Day 2/21

Feels great to be back on track...vivid dreams and more energy already...had a date last week and I have a date this week as well, through more approaches I'm gonna get up to "dating" 2-3 times a week.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Day 3/21...Feeling really good (Even tho the Mavs lost :cry: ) lol...Looking forward to this weekend to get more approaches done...
 

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I think the last time i did it was about 15 days ago and the funny thing is i haven't being trying to stop, i just haven't done it and i don't really feel the urge to do it either. I feel pretty good though, i might try keep it like this but i won't be angry at myself if i do it again.. :rockon:
 

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Day 4/21...Hangin out with a girl tonight I used to hang out with almost a year ago but made a lot of newbie mistakes on haha...my game has elevated a lot since then, let's see how this goes...Feelin great & energetic, I'm a lot more productive now...I woke up early and got a ton of things done this morning.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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souporman said:
Most of you aren't going to get that huge energy boost that you expected. As long as you weren't masturbating daily or more then your energy levels arent very depleted in the first place.

Somebody can explain this? I usually masturbate AT LEAST 2 times a day although I have sex AT LEAST 3-4 times a week and I would do it a lot more if I wasn't so busy. When I'm home (illness, skipping school, whatever), I sometimes masturbate more than 6 times a day.
Nevertheless, people say that I'm too active and I should relax a bit because I tend to jump around 24/7.

Anyway, since I haven't been masturbating for 2 days in a row (and if I resist tonight, it will be easy to get to 5, because I'm at a sleepover party tomorrow night), I want to try this stuff, hopefully something good will happen, whatever it may be.

I'm about to complete day 3 of my first period!
 

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Day 1! I'm going to finish 21 days this time. Then I'll do 21 days again. Then I plan on releasing it weekly if not more, but only in a gal :) So basiclaly, so jerkin it until college when I can get some pvssy
 

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Day 5/21...Last night went pretty well, went to party and got mega social proof...doing some sarging tonight. Dreams were pretty vivid last night tho I don't remember them. To Potbelly: Man I miss the college days!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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