il_duce
Master Don Juan
14/21
or 15/21 if you want to get technical
Woke up with blue balls this morning.
or 15/21 if you want to get technical
Woke up with blue balls this morning.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
- Thread starter twilight
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PumpNightmare
Don Juan
Even though I opted out, I believe I'll keep up with this thread here and there. Since three days ago I opted out and came once. It's been three days since then, and that was the third time I've came since I "stopped" masturbating. The past two days I've been having wickedly vivid dreams I can remember when I wake up. Like one yesterday I had a dream I was in a room with a bunch of girls and they were all givng me eye contact and body language, but I was too afraid to approuch. Then one of my friends came up to me and said something (probably WTF are you doing? Approach!), then the dream ended. And last night I had a dream about some girl I've seen giving me a bj. My dreams before I could never remember details, but always remember being violent or something. Now they're more sexual, like these (at least the past two nights).
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
21/21
Yep, three weeks! After the first week it all got easier, once the pattern was broken. Of course, it helps to have sex in the weekends.
So what now, do I get a special hat or something?
Yep, three weeks! After the first week it all got easier, once the pattern was broken. Of course, it helps to have sex in the weekends.
So what now, do I get a special hat or something?
1st:7/21
2nd:4/21
3rd: back to 1/21
broke it yesterday and today because of boredom.
And guess what, I feel less energetic and motivated to do anything. I don't know if it's because of the masturbating but I'm going to break my first one of a week since startin this ****.
2nd:4/21
3rd: back to 1/21
broke it yesterday and today because of boredom.
And guess what, I feel less energetic and motivated to do anything. I don't know if it's because of the masturbating but I'm going to break my first one of a week since startin this ****.
brucevangeorge
Banned
Day one again.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
don juan jr
Don Juan
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Day 4/21
had two dreams last night woke up without my shirt lol
had two dreams last night woke up without my shirt lol
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Ended, Day 15/21
I couldn't fall asleep last night and I had a final exam this morning...you know the rest. Only the first 3 or 4 days were challenging at all, after that, I pretty much lost all the urge to whack it. I feel like I could have easily gone the full 21 days and then some.
1/21
I couldn't fall asleep last night and I had a final exam this morning...you know the rest. Only the first 3 or 4 days were challenging at all, after that, I pretty much lost all the urge to whack it. I feel like I could have easily gone the full 21 days and then some.
1/21
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
don juan jr
Don Juan
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day 5/21
watched some porn but didn't wack it. its about learning self control gentlmen. still goin strong
watched some porn but didn't wack it. its about learning self control gentlmen. still goin strong
1/21-2/21: Done
3/21: Pending
I am feeling better already, and for some reason I have no desire to whack it. I think it is because I finally realize how shytty it made me feel and I don't want to feel like that again. I had some weird ass dreams last night though.
3/21: Pending
I am feeling better already, and for some reason I have no desire to whack it. I think it is because I finally realize how shytty it made me feel and I don't want to feel like that again. I had some weird ass dreams last night though.
brucevangeorge
Banned
Day 2
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
don juan jr
Don Juan
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restarting... 0/21
was not worth it, but oh well made it 1 1/2 days farther than the last go around.
is it ok if you watch porn and touch yourself, but not finish?
was not worth it, but oh well made it 1 1/2 days farther than the last go around.
is it ok if you watch porn and touch yourself, but not finish?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.