il_duce
Master Don Juan
14/21
or 15/21 if you want to get technical
Woke up with blue balls this morning.
or 15/21 if you want to get technical
Woke up with blue balls this morning.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
- Thread starter twilight
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PumpNightmare
Don Juan
Even though I opted out, I believe I'll keep up with this thread here and there. Since three days ago I opted out and came once. It's been three days since then, and that was the third time I've came since I "stopped" masturbating. The past two days I've been having wickedly vivid dreams I can remember when I wake up. Like one yesterday I had a dream I was in a room with a bunch of girls and they were all givng me eye contact and body language, but I was too afraid to approuch. Then one of my friends came up to me and said something (probably WTF are you doing? Approach!), then the dream ended. And last night I had a dream about some girl I've seen giving me a bj. My dreams before I could never remember details, but always remember being violent or something. Now they're more sexual, like these (at least the past two nights).
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
21/21
Yep, three weeks! After the first week it all got easier, once the pattern was broken. Of course, it helps to have sex in the weekends.
So what now, do I get a special hat or something?
Yep, three weeks! After the first week it all got easier, once the pattern was broken. Of course, it helps to have sex in the weekends.
So what now, do I get a special hat or something?
1st:7/21
2nd:4/21
3rd: back to 1/21
broke it yesterday and today because of boredom.
And guess what, I feel less energetic and motivated to do anything. I don't know if it's because of the masturbating but I'm going to break my first one of a week since startin this ****.
2nd:4/21
3rd: back to 1/21
broke it yesterday and today because of boredom.
And guess what, I feel less energetic and motivated to do anything. I don't know if it's because of the masturbating but I'm going to break my first one of a week since startin this ****.
brucevangeorge
Banned
Day one again.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
don juan jr
Don Juan
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Day 4/21
had two dreams last night woke up without my shirt lol
had two dreams last night woke up without my shirt lol
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Ended, Day 15/21
I couldn't fall asleep last night and I had a final exam this morning...you know the rest. Only the first 3 or 4 days were challenging at all, after that, I pretty much lost all the urge to whack it. I feel like I could have easily gone the full 21 days and then some.
1/21
I couldn't fall asleep last night and I had a final exam this morning...you know the rest. Only the first 3 or 4 days were challenging at all, after that, I pretty much lost all the urge to whack it. I feel like I could have easily gone the full 21 days and then some.
1/21
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
don juan jr
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day 5/21
watched some porn but didn't wack it. its about learning self control gentlmen. still goin strong
watched some porn but didn't wack it. its about learning self control gentlmen. still goin strong
1/21-2/21: Done
3/21: Pending
I am feeling better already, and for some reason I have no desire to whack it. I think it is because I finally realize how shytty it made me feel and I don't want to feel like that again. I had some weird ass dreams last night though.
3/21: Pending
I am feeling better already, and for some reason I have no desire to whack it. I think it is because I finally realize how shytty it made me feel and I don't want to feel like that again. I had some weird ass dreams last night though.
brucevangeorge
Banned
Day 2
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
don juan jr
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restarting... 0/21
was not worth it, but oh well made it 1 1/2 days farther than the last go around.
is it ok if you watch porn and touch yourself, but not finish?
was not worth it, but oh well made it 1 1/2 days farther than the last go around.
is it ok if you watch porn and touch yourself, but not finish?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.