il_duce
Master Don Juan
14/21
or 15/21 if you want to get technical
Woke up with blue balls this morning.
or 15/21 if you want to get technical
Woke up with blue balls this morning.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
- Thread starter twilight
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
PumpNightmare
Don Juan
Even though I opted out, I believe I'll keep up with this thread here and there. Since three days ago I opted out and came once. It's been three days since then, and that was the third time I've came since I "stopped" masturbating. The past two days I've been having wickedly vivid dreams I can remember when I wake up. Like one yesterday I had a dream I was in a room with a bunch of girls and they were all givng me eye contact and body language, but I was too afraid to approuch. Then one of my friends came up to me and said something (probably WTF are you doing? Approach!), then the dream ended. And last night I had a dream about some girl I've seen giving me a bj. My dreams before I could never remember details, but always remember being violent or something. Now they're more sexual, like these (at least the past two nights).
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
21/21
Yep, three weeks! After the first week it all got easier, once the pattern was broken. Of course, it helps to have sex in the weekends.
So what now, do I get a special hat or something?
Yep, three weeks! After the first week it all got easier, once the pattern was broken. Of course, it helps to have sex in the weekends.
So what now, do I get a special hat or something?
1st:7/21
2nd:4/21
3rd: back to 1/21
broke it yesterday and today because of boredom.
And guess what, I feel less energetic and motivated to do anything. I don't know if it's because of the masturbating but I'm going to break my first one of a week since startin this ****.
2nd:4/21
3rd: back to 1/21
broke it yesterday and today because of boredom.
And guess what, I feel less energetic and motivated to do anything. I don't know if it's because of the masturbating but I'm going to break my first one of a week since startin this ****.
brucevangeorge
Banned
Day one again.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
don juan jr
Don Juan
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Day 4/21
had two dreams last night woke up without my shirt lol
had two dreams last night woke up without my shirt lol
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Ended, Day 15/21
I couldn't fall asleep last night and I had a final exam this morning...you know the rest. Only the first 3 or 4 days were challenging at all, after that, I pretty much lost all the urge to whack it. I feel like I could have easily gone the full 21 days and then some.
1/21
I couldn't fall asleep last night and I had a final exam this morning...you know the rest. Only the first 3 or 4 days were challenging at all, after that, I pretty much lost all the urge to whack it. I feel like I could have easily gone the full 21 days and then some.
1/21
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
don juan jr
Don Juan
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day 5/21
watched some porn but didn't wack it. its about learning self control gentlmen. still goin strong
watched some porn but didn't wack it. its about learning self control gentlmen. still goin strong
1/21-2/21: Done
3/21: Pending
I am feeling better already, and for some reason I have no desire to whack it. I think it is because I finally realize how shytty it made me feel and I don't want to feel like that again. I had some weird ass dreams last night though.
3/21: Pending
I am feeling better already, and for some reason I have no desire to whack it. I think it is because I finally realize how shytty it made me feel and I don't want to feel like that again. I had some weird ass dreams last night though.
brucevangeorge
Banned
Day 2
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
don juan jr
Don Juan
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restarting... 0/21
was not worth it, but oh well made it 1 1/2 days farther than the last go around.
is it ok if you watch porn and touch yourself, but not finish?
was not worth it, but oh well made it 1 1/2 days farther than the last go around.
is it ok if you watch porn and touch yourself, but not finish?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.