"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

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7/21 for me

I'm getting used to being on an eternal testosterone high all day long, usually starting with the typical wood in the morning. I don't remember my dreams, but I've always had bizzaro ones, so that's not new or disturbing to me. I'm also louder and more obnoxious than usual.

I'm also noticing women a ton more than usual, they're friggin everywhere, I swear I can smell em' out or something. It's just like, I look over, and BOOM, female, look over here, BOOM female. Now THIS is a good 7th sense to happen, never miss an IOI again:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Day 3.

Holy ****.

The Dreams are driving me nuts. I had to wake up an hour earlier cause I couldn't take it anymore.

Energy is alot higher today.
 
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7/21 for me
It's just like, I look over, and BOOM, female, look over here, BOOM female. Now THIS is a good 7th sense to happen, never miss an IOI again:D
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3/21

even though I blew it after 7 days the first time I feel better than at the previous 3/21 :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I opt out. I think I'll stick with a once a week plan with no porn. Felt ****ing great today...especialy since I can use my imagination better without the aid of pr0n. Good luck to anyone else trying this. Personaly I think it'll lead to insanity if you don't have any help.
 
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5/21

btw, to all the guys who havent been jerking off for some time.. how long did it take 'til u "released"? i mean how long did it take not jerking off to have a wet dream.. ?

edit: i also wanna know who's doing this for a long time and ISN'T having sex either!! how long then btw?
 
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What's your 6th sense?
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6th, that's easy, Mild Form of ESP, I've had that since I was a young kid. I don't know why, but I've always had some kind of strange ability to pick up enough vibes off a person to have an excellent idea of what they are thinking. It's weird.
 
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1/21...

I fell off after my 30th day, back to day 1...but regardless what an accomplishment!! And it really gave me time to put things in perspective as far as what I want from this. I'm with Pumpnightmare on this one...I'm gonna have to be having sex to completely get this handled for good. It felt good at first, but after about 2-3 weeks it got too intense, and my mind got too focused on sex...and you how that works, if you're *too* focused on something you'll just push it away. Regardless, they'll be a lot more sarging on my part this time around. I pushed some of my boundaries last time and this time I'm gonna take it even further...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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waittt what do the codes mean im confused

anyways i was in the hospital for two weeks and my nerve system is still healing/blood pressure is low so i cant have sex or orgasm yet. i havent beat off since the day before i went in, so not since april 24th. i found this thread and figured hey made it this far i really should quit and take advantage of the opportunity.

so uh what do the 1/21 things mean
 
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ive tried this before and it was awsome so i think im gonna try it again 2/21
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2/21...

Ran into this indian girl today I hadn't seen in awhile. She's kinda hot, and no longer has a boyfriend, so I got the number...& more approaches are the goal, so I can date at least one new girl a week...I think I'm gonna join chickenlegs03 on the approach challenge...
 
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qlo said:
btw, to all the guys who havent been jerking off for some time.. how long did it take 'til u "released"? i mean how long did it take not jerking off to have a wet dream.. ?

edit: i also wanna know who's doing this for a long time and ISN'T having sex either!! how long then btw?
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btw 1/21 again, now for real
 
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hands locked, no sex in sight.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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