"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

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7/21 for me

I'm getting used to being on an eternal testosterone high all day long, usually starting with the typical wood in the morning. I don't remember my dreams, but I've always had bizzaro ones, so that's not new or disturbing to me. I'm also louder and more obnoxious than usual.

I'm also noticing women a ton more than usual, they're friggin everywhere, I swear I can smell em' out or something. It's just like, I look over, and BOOM, female, look over here, BOOM female. Now THIS is a good 7th sense to happen, never miss an IOI again:D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Day 3.

Holy ****.

The Dreams are driving me nuts. I had to wake up an hour earlier cause I couldn't take it anymore.

Energy is alot higher today.
 
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MagikDude said:
7/21 for me
It's just like, I look over, and BOOM, female, look over here, BOOM female. Now THIS is a good 7th sense to happen, never miss an IOI again:D
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What's your 6th sense?
 
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even though I blew it after 7 days the first time I feel better than at the previous 3/21 :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I opt out. I think I'll stick with a once a week plan with no porn. Felt ****ing great today...especialy since I can use my imagination better without the aid of pr0n. Good luck to anyone else trying this. Personaly I think it'll lead to insanity if you don't have any help.
 
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5/21

btw, to all the guys who havent been jerking off for some time.. how long did it take 'til u "released"? i mean how long did it take not jerking off to have a wet dream.. ?

edit: i also wanna know who's doing this for a long time and ISN'T having sex either!! how long then btw?
 
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What's your 6th sense?
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6th, that's easy, Mild Form of ESP, I've had that since I was a young kid. I don't know why, but I've always had some kind of strange ability to pick up enough vibes off a person to have an excellent idea of what they are thinking. It's weird.
 
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1/21...

I fell off after my 30th day, back to day 1...but regardless what an accomplishment!! And it really gave me time to put things in perspective as far as what I want from this. I'm with Pumpnightmare on this one...I'm gonna have to be having sex to completely get this handled for good. It felt good at first, but after about 2-3 weeks it got too intense, and my mind got too focused on sex...and you how that works, if you're *too* focused on something you'll just push it away. Regardless, they'll be a lot more sarging on my part this time around. I pushed some of my boundaries last time and this time I'm gonna take it even further...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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waittt what do the codes mean im confused

anyways i was in the hospital for two weeks and my nerve system is still healing/blood pressure is low so i cant have sex or orgasm yet. i havent beat off since the day before i went in, so not since april 24th. i found this thread and figured hey made it this far i really should quit and take advantage of the opportunity.

so uh what do the 1/21 things mean
 
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ive tried this before and it was awsome so i think im gonna try it again 2/21
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2/21...

Ran into this indian girl today I hadn't seen in awhile. She's kinda hot, and no longer has a boyfriend, so I got the number...& more approaches are the goal, so I can date at least one new girl a week...I think I'm gonna join chickenlegs03 on the approach challenge...
 
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qlo said:
btw, to all the guys who havent been jerking off for some time.. how long did it take 'til u "released"? i mean how long did it take not jerking off to have a wet dream.. ?

edit: i also wanna know who's doing this for a long time and ISN'T having sex either!! how long then btw?
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btw 1/21 again, now for real
 
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5/21
hands locked, no sex in sight.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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