"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

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7/21 for me

I'm getting used to being on an eternal testosterone high all day long, usually starting with the typical wood in the morning. I don't remember my dreams, but I've always had bizzaro ones, so that's not new or disturbing to me. I'm also louder and more obnoxious than usual.

I'm also noticing women a ton more than usual, they're friggin everywhere, I swear I can smell em' out or something. It's just like, I look over, and BOOM, female, look over here, BOOM female. Now THIS is a good 7th sense to happen, never miss an IOI again:D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Day 3.

Holy ****.

The Dreams are driving me nuts. I had to wake up an hour earlier cause I couldn't take it anymore.

Energy is alot higher today.
 
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MagikDude said:
7/21 for me
It's just like, I look over, and BOOM, female, look over here, BOOM female. Now THIS is a good 7th sense to happen, never miss an IOI again:D
What's your 6th sense?
 

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3/21

even though I blew it after 7 days the first time I feel better than at the previous 3/21 :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I opt out. I think I'll stick with a once a week plan with no porn. Felt ****ing great today...especialy since I can use my imagination better without the aid of pr0n. Good luck to anyone else trying this. Personaly I think it'll lead to insanity if you don't have any help.
 

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5/21

btw, to all the guys who havent been jerking off for some time.. how long did it take 'til u "released"? i mean how long did it take not jerking off to have a wet dream.. ?

edit: i also wanna know who's doing this for a long time and ISN'T having sex either!! how long then btw?
 
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brucevangeorge said:
What's your 6th sense?
6th, that's easy, Mild Form of ESP, I've had that since I was a young kid. I don't know why, but I've always had some kind of strange ability to pick up enough vibes off a person to have an excellent idea of what they are thinking. It's weird.
 

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1/21...

I fell off after my 30th day, back to day 1...but regardless what an accomplishment!! And it really gave me time to put things in perspective as far as what I want from this. I'm with Pumpnightmare on this one...I'm gonna have to be having sex to completely get this handled for good. It felt good at first, but after about 2-3 weeks it got too intense, and my mind got too focused on sex...and you how that works, if you're *too* focused on something you'll just push it away. Regardless, they'll be a lot more sarging on my part this time around. I pushed some of my boundaries last time and this time I'm gonna take it even further...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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waittt what do the codes mean im confused

anyways i was in the hospital for two weeks and my nerve system is still healing/blood pressure is low so i cant have sex or orgasm yet. i havent beat off since the day before i went in, so not since april 24th. i found this thread and figured hey made it this far i really should quit and take advantage of the opportunity.

so uh what do the 1/21 things mean
 

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ive tried this before and it was awsome so i think im gonna try it again 2/21
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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2/21...

Ran into this indian girl today I hadn't seen in awhile. She's kinda hot, and no longer has a boyfriend, so I got the number...& more approaches are the goal, so I can date at least one new girl a week...I think I'm gonna join chickenlegs03 on the approach challenge...
 

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qlo said:
btw, to all the guys who havent been jerking off for some time.. how long did it take 'til u "released"? i mean how long did it take not jerking off to have a wet dream.. ?

edit: i also wanna know who's doing this for a long time and ISN'T having sex either!! how long then btw?
?

btw 1/21 again, now for real
 

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5/21
hands locked, no sex in sight.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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