It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

[Dante3214]

Day 3/? (don't know how long I want to go, probably 21 days or until the need stops... because then there'll be nothing to fight!)



Haven't noticed any "energy bursts", and I'm still quite lethargic during the school day (its easier for me to sleep at 3:00pm than at night...)


It's been on my mind more, but I use whatever distraction techniques I can, along with concentration techniques (you could call it meditating, but with your eyes open).


The most suprising thing is that thinking (or concentrating on), on disturbing images, or of serious pain being inflicted to the genitals (lol), doesn't really work to curb any craving anymore.



And damn... that's after 3 days....

It almost makes me anxious about day 8.... as I am honestly one of those people that did it every day...



Although, I am also anxious to see whether or not I feel better because of this.




Good luck to the rest of you, you... probably... need it.

I was masturbating daily, probably 1-2 times, and now that I'm trying to bulk, I don't think it would be a great idea. As far as all the stupid myths about going blind, growing hair on my palms, or any other crap, I don't buy it. This is about me learning self-control and chanelling the time and energy I waste on porn and masturbating to being more productive and hitting the gym.

Me too!

 

[Oxide]

I gotta tell you, i honestly can feel the urge going away. It is almost wierd because i am so used to it, but this is near.

 

[il_duce]

And so it begins...

Day 1/21

Hell yeah

 

[PumpNightmare]

16/21
...wet dream...nuff said.

 

[chickenlegs03]

on day 19 today...probably the most i have ever gone before

 

[xmlenigma]

Started last Monday April 24th . Still going.. on 10 days. Wasnt as difficult as I thought.. going from atleast once a day or more.. to none at all.

PS: It does make you do things.. the INNER MALE comes out.

 

[Oxide]

Oh hey I just remembered - I had sex with two women and flirted with 20 more in my dream tonight. Then i went out and approached a couple of hotties once i awoke

 

[twilight]

21/21...Day Twenty-One...This is a good feeling. Accomplishing a goal like that. On to my second option...:yes:

 

[chickenlegs03]

21/21...Day Twenty-One...This is a good feeling. Accomplishing a goal like that. On to my second option...:yes:

that's great to hear.

seriously, thanks again for starting this thread. i would have never done that 6 month thing. seemed so intimidating...but now, i might just go 6 months, in 21-day increments.

i'll be joining you on that second option pretty soon as well. :box:

great job to everyone else too, let's keep it going.

onto day 20 tomorrow

 

[bbestar]

21/21...Day Twenty-One...This is a good feeling. Accomplishing a goal like that. On to my second option...:yes:

I congratulate you on your accomplishment. You are definitely on your way to freedom.

 

[muttley]

on day 7 or day 8 i felt like a total king. I was very obnoxious ****y and all that stuff. I think it was the surge of T

oh and 12/21 28 april 06

Getting very horny now. hard0ns galore. Thinking about s3x always. I have a hottie that im gonna meet next week, and another MILF possibly. I want to cvm in her pvssy.


^^ can u see how horni i am :nervous:

other than that, im MORE aggressive, assertive, ALIVE. Im much more ****y and cheeky.

18/21 04 may 06.

3 days more and im there.

 

[PumpNightmare]

17/21
Although, I woke up horny this morning. I was wrapped in the covers really tight. A moved a little and came. So, I guess that'll count as masturbation. :/

Restarting at 1/21

 

[Nexxus]

ok I'm starting this... tommorrow since I already jacked off today for no reason except for the fact I didn't jack off in 4 days...
anyways here goes

day 0/21

 

[chickenlegs03]

17/21
Although, I woke up horny this morning. I was wrapped in the covers really tight. A moved a little and came. So, I guess that'll count as masturbation. :/

Restarting at 1/21

dude, that sucks...

...oddly, today I seriously felt the need to 'play with it a bit' just to make sure things are working down there. I didn't go all the way, just a couple minutes of looking at porn to make sure my **** is working. I was worried because I actually couldn't remember the last time I was hard.

Anyhow, it does work, but I feel like there's something wrong...like I don't get excited as easily as I should. I mean, I've felt the angression, the anger, and the energy...but I've had trouble feeling much of a boost sexually.

And I'm even taking ZMA, Fenugreek, Maca, Horny Goat Weed, and Avena Sativa for the past few days (for other reasons). Whatever...

I'm still in the game. Onto day 21 tomorrow.

 

[Friendly Otter]

11/21

Halfway there!

Maybe this wasn't the best timing, since my girlfriend and I recently broke up, but that only makes it all the more challenging. And I agree with Oxide, the urge goes away. When you have gone a week, you know you can do the whole stretch, even though there have been some dangerous moments of weakness. Curse the women of Pornopia for being so darn sexy! Away, ye masters of temptation!

I have an old FB on my MSN Messenger, and I told her that I am refraining from whacking off. This girl is fun, you can tell her things like that. She was impressed, but afraid to see me when I have all that sexual energy piled up. D'oh!

Congratulations, Twilight, I am chasing your heels! How many in this thread have made it so far? And how many have bit the dust? Something to count when I got more time.

17/21
Although, I woke up horny this morning. I was wrapped in the covers really tight. A moved a little and came. So, I guess that'll count as masturbation. :/

Restarting at 1/21

Nooo! Not after all that, you were doing so well! To come does not count as masturbation. With a project like this one, I suppose involuntary ejaculation is almost inevitable. Only masturbation counts as masturbation.

Come on guys, don't you think PumpNightmare should let himself off the hook on this one?

 

[il_duce]

Day 3/21

I actually had a sex dream last night. It's been several weeks since I've had one of those. I almost blew it this morning when I woke up though...crisis averted.

 

[Dogfish]

3/31...

****, im gonna be alone on weekend. any ideas to stay on course?

 

[bbestar]

Bore yourself to death.. No TV, No Internet

 

[chickenlegs03]

3/31...

****, im gonna be alone on weekend. any ideas to stay on course?

I've been alone since December. yeah, it's soemwhat ****ed up. But what you do is just do what you want. As long as you're doing something you love, keeping your mind busy...you won't even think about it.

These past 21 days have been a breeze. Onto option 2 tomorrow. All you gotta do is live your life. Get a life. Sitting in front of the pc and just looking at porn is not a life. I used to waste my weekends like that. It's crazy.

 

[Dogfish]

I've been alone since December. yeah, it's soemwhat ****ed up. But what you do is just do what you want. As long as you're doing something you love, keeping your mind busy...you won't even think about it.

These past 21 days have been a breeze. Onto option 2 tomorrow. All you gotta do is live your life. Get a life. Sitting in front of the pc and just looking at porn is not a life. I used to waste my weekends like that. It's crazy.

8 weeks, then im home w/ my homies and everythings good.

god, i almost exploded w/ confidence today
i walked like a king