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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
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PumpNightmare
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12/21
I can do this!
I can do this!
chickenlegs03
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on day 15 today
hell yeah
hell yeah
17/21...Day seventeen, today I found my digital camera I'd been looking for and forgot that I had recorded a video that runs a few minutes of me getting head. I'd almost loaded the batteries in when I remembered, and decided I'd better not take that chance and watch it. The batteries went in my electric shaver instead lol. One of my motto's coming into '06 was "I'd rather make a porn than watch one" lol. More field reports coming soon fellas...
chickenlegs03
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actually, yesterday i looked at some 'porn'
not videos, but pics. the thing is i like to draw, and women being one of those things, i was just using the images to draw from for some practice. the couple nights before that i was starting to have some crazy vivid dreams.
i honestly don't want to bust a nut in my sleep because that would be a mess to clean up, especially after not having nutted in 15 days.
anyway, after looking at those pictures the other night, my vivid dreams went away. i've actually noticed that the times when i'm more aroused by real women, or even while dating a girl (during which i rarely watch porn, so same thing)...i've had more of these 'vivid' dreams.
so, basically, what i'm saying is, i might just watch a tiny bit of porn here and there to keep myself from erupting during the night. tonight i watched about a couple scenes of various movies i got, and hopefully it will help prevent any explosions during the night. that's honestly why i watched. i didn't masturbate at all, just watched to avoid a mess...
...better yet hopefully i'll get laid soon and won't have to worry about holding it in any longer :woo:
not videos, but pics. the thing is i like to draw, and women being one of those things, i was just using the images to draw from for some practice. the couple nights before that i was starting to have some crazy vivid dreams.
i honestly don't want to bust a nut in my sleep because that would be a mess to clean up, especially after not having nutted in 15 days.
anyway, after looking at those pictures the other night, my vivid dreams went away. i've actually noticed that the times when i'm more aroused by real women, or even while dating a girl (during which i rarely watch porn, so same thing)...i've had more of these 'vivid' dreams.
so, basically, what i'm saying is, i might just watch a tiny bit of porn here and there to keep myself from erupting during the night. tonight i watched about a couple scenes of various movies i got, and hopefully it will help prevent any explosions during the night. that's honestly why i watched. i didn't masturbate at all, just watched to avoid a mess...
...better yet hopefully i'll get laid soon and won't have to worry about holding it in any longer :woo:
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manbearpig
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I still don't see the point in not jacking off.
PumpNightmare
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13/21
I'm getting weird dreams, but not really sexual. Strange ones, I'll leave it at that. Hmmm..one more week.
I need to get some ass before I go crazy. I feel like I'm going to snap. I was getting ready to go to work this morning, and my next door neightbor was being loud (graduation was this weekend). I didn't bother saying anything since I was leaving, but when I walked out the door with my bike at 1am in the morning, they looked at me and asked if the music was too loud. <.< I think I gave them a mean look cuase they were apologizing without me saying anything. Then I said not worry about it now, with a firm voice, and left.
I'm getting weird dreams, but not really sexual. Strange ones, I'll leave it at that. Hmmm..one more week.
I need to get some ass before I go crazy. I feel like I'm going to snap. I was getting ready to go to work this morning, and my next door neightbor was being loud (graduation was this weekend). I didn't bother saying anything since I was leaving, but when I walked out the door with my bike at 1am in the morning, they looked at me and asked if the music was too loud. <.< I think I gave them a mean look cuase they were apologizing without me saying anything. Then I said not worry about it now, with a firm voice, and left.
chickenlegs03
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lol, i know what you mean.PumpNightmare said:
on day 16 today...and btw, the watching porn thing worked, no 'vivid' dreams ....still had some crazy dreams though, kind of scary/cool
18/21...Day Eighteen, the dreams are getting ridiculous!! Very vivid dreams about fellatio this time. I had some setbacks with girls a had sarged earlier. But I will sarge on...this is a lifestyle now. I'm scheduling what will be a sure thing Saturday with this girl I know just in case I haven't gotten any by then. Missing my long distance LTR right now (not my "girlfriend" tho for distance reasons). The girl from my hometown I had a sexual dream about just called and is coming over tonite. Wednesday I reach my goal and Friday Chickenlegs03 reaches his goal, and I'm definitely taking a second option. This is great! And like I always say SEE YOU AT THE TOP FELLAS!!!
PumpNightmare
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14/21
Two weeks without a single orgasm. Feeling more anxious now. But I don't get vivid, sexual dreams. Simply weird, violent ones. Perhaps it's a sign I might really snap if someone pushings the right buttons...hopefuly not, I try to avoid fights.
Two weeks without a single orgasm. Feeling more anxious now. But I don't get vivid, sexual dreams. Simply weird, violent ones. Perhaps it's a sign I might really snap if someone pushings the right buttons...hopefuly not, I try to avoid fights.
Byezbozhniy
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5/21. I'm approaching the point where I caved last time. I've been a lot busier this week though so I'm hardly noticing that I'm going without it.
15/21
NO ONE ANSWERED MY QUESTION!!!
When you end up getting a ONS, do you quickly JERK OFF before banging her? If I **** her straight up I'll blow my load as soon as I touch her tits. (given how long I havn't masturbated) Is there any shame in just rubbing one off all over her face in 10 sec? Do you tell her, etc.?
NO ONE ANSWERED MY QUESTION!!!
When you end up getting a ONS, do you quickly JERK OFF before banging her? If I **** her straight up I'll blow my load as soon as I touch her tits. (given how long I havn't masturbated) Is there any shame in just rubbing one off all over her face in 10 sec? Do you tell her, etc.?
manbearpig
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I have a question, which is does anyone here have any real proof that masturbating is a drain on your testosterone other than immediately after you do it?
chickenlegs03
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nope. and you can never know until you try. it's more than just energy. some of it is a placebo effect. but self-discipline and using that time more productively that i would otherwise use to wack off...that's no placebo.manbearpig said:
btw, i'm on day 17 today.
i feel like a man
ok tomorrow is day 1 again:
omfg today I was taking a piss and just from holding my c0ck it got hard and i couldn't piss until like 2 min later and then it kept doing that i was like goddam. people were lookin at me weird cuz i stood therefor 10 minutes.
anyways, i get home, goddam i went crazy and jsut bust it like 5 times in a row and it was a FREAKING MESS goddammm
ok 21 days here i come 1/21
omfg today I was taking a piss and just from holding my c0ck it got hard and i couldn't piss until like 2 min later and then it kept doing that i was like goddam. people were lookin at me weird cuz i stood therefor 10 minutes.
anyways, i get home, goddam i went crazy and jsut bust it like 5 times in a row and it was a FREAKING MESS goddammm
ok 21 days here i come 1/21
chickenlegs03
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nice dude, that's awesome.Oxide said:
Friendly Otter
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7/21
One week! This is easier than I expected. I have a very strong libido, but I am determined to make it.
Against all advice I watch porn, and abort mission before ruining my statistics. I would simply be too bored if I didn't get to peruse my collection. I don't recommend this for anyone else, though.
Seeing as I had sex this weekend things got a little easier. But the results of the project so far:
--I actually think of sex less. I have noticed this other times when I have gone without whacking for ten days or so; perhaps it is simply a matter of thinking less of that which you don't do much of. However, I still desire sex as much as before. Just don't think about the desire much.
--Less procrastination. It is true that whacking off can be used to procrastinate when there's something you need to do.
--A greater incentive to get real sex
--Any time discipline beats desire your self-confidence gets a boost
--A kind of fresh and clean feeling. Like when you beat other habits, like cigarettes or sugar.
--Frustration!
Despite the frustration I am confident I can make it to a full three weeks, though.
One week! This is easier than I expected. I have a very strong libido, but I am determined to make it.
Against all advice I watch porn, and abort mission before ruining my statistics. I would simply be too bored if I didn't get to peruse my collection. I don't recommend this for anyone else, though.
Seeing as I had sex this weekend things got a little easier. But the results of the project so far:
--I actually think of sex less. I have noticed this other times when I have gone without whacking for ten days or so; perhaps it is simply a matter of thinking less of that which you don't do much of. However, I still desire sex as much as before. Just don't think about the desire much.
--Less procrastination. It is true that whacking off can be used to procrastinate when there's something you need to do.
--A greater incentive to get real sex
--Any time discipline beats desire your self-confidence gets a boost
--A kind of fresh and clean feeling. Like when you beat other habits, like cigarettes or sugar.
--Frustration!
Despite the frustration I am confident I can make it to a full three weeks, though.
