17/21...Day seventeen, today I found my digital camera I'd been looking for and forgot that I had recorded a video that runs a few minutes of me getting head. I'd almost loaded the batteries in when I remembered, and decided I'd better not take that chance and watch it. The batteries went in my electric shaver instead lol. One of my motto's coming into '06 was "I'd rather make a porn than watch one" lol. More field reports coming soon fellas...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
chickenlegs03
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actually, yesterday i looked at some 'porn'
not videos, but pics. the thing is i like to draw, and women being one of those things, i was just using the images to draw from for some practice. the couple nights before that i was starting to have some crazy vivid dreams.
i honestly don't want to bust a nut in my sleep because that would be a mess to clean up, especially after not having nutted in 15 days.
anyway, after looking at those pictures the other night, my vivid dreams went away. i've actually noticed that the times when i'm more aroused by real women, or even while dating a girl (during which i rarely watch porn, so same thing)...i've had more of these 'vivid' dreams.
so, basically, what i'm saying is, i might just watch a tiny bit of porn here and there to keep myself from erupting during the night. tonight i watched about a couple scenes of various movies i got, and hopefully it will help prevent any explosions during the night. that's honestly why i watched. i didn't masturbate at all, just watched to avoid a mess...
...better yet hopefully i'll get laid soon and won't have to worry about holding it in any longer :woo:
not videos, but pics. the thing is i like to draw, and women being one of those things, i was just using the images to draw from for some practice. the couple nights before that i was starting to have some crazy vivid dreams.
i honestly don't want to bust a nut in my sleep because that would be a mess to clean up, especially after not having nutted in 15 days.
anyway, after looking at those pictures the other night, my vivid dreams went away. i've actually noticed that the times when i'm more aroused by real women, or even while dating a girl (during which i rarely watch porn, so same thing)...i've had more of these 'vivid' dreams.
so, basically, what i'm saying is, i might just watch a tiny bit of porn here and there to keep myself from erupting during the night. tonight i watched about a couple scenes of various movies i got, and hopefully it will help prevent any explosions during the night. that's honestly why i watched. i didn't masturbate at all, just watched to avoid a mess...
...better yet hopefully i'll get laid soon and won't have to worry about holding it in any longer :woo:
manbearpig
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I still don't see the point in not jacking off.
PumpNightmare
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13/21
I'm getting weird dreams, but not really sexual. Strange ones, I'll leave it at that. Hmmm..one more week.
I need to get some ass before I go crazy. I feel like I'm going to snap. I was getting ready to go to work this morning, and my next door neightbor was being loud (graduation was this weekend). I didn't bother saying anything since I was leaving, but when I walked out the door with my bike at 1am in the morning, they looked at me and asked if the music was too loud. <.< I think I gave them a mean look cuase they were apologizing without me saying anything. Then I said not worry about it now, with a firm voice, and left.
I'm getting weird dreams, but not really sexual. Strange ones, I'll leave it at that. Hmmm..one more week.
I need to get some ass before I go crazy. I feel like I'm going to snap. I was getting ready to go to work this morning, and my next door neightbor was being loud (graduation was this weekend). I didn't bother saying anything since I was leaving, but when I walked out the door with my bike at 1am in the morning, they looked at me and asked if the music was too loud. <.< I think I gave them a mean look cuase they were apologizing without me saying anything. Then I said not worry about it now, with a firm voice, and left.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
chickenlegs03
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lol, i know what you mean.PumpNightmare said:
on day 16 today...and btw, the watching porn thing worked, no 'vivid' dreams ....still had some crazy dreams though, kind of scary/cool
18/21...Day Eighteen, the dreams are getting ridiculous!! Very vivid dreams about fellatio this time. I had some setbacks with girls a had sarged earlier. But I will sarge on...this is a lifestyle now. I'm scheduling what will be a sure thing Saturday with this girl I know just in case I haven't gotten any by then. Missing my long distance LTR right now (not my "girlfriend" tho for distance reasons). The girl from my hometown I had a sexual dream about just called and is coming over tonite. Wednesday I reach my goal and Friday Chickenlegs03 reaches his goal, and I'm definitely taking a second option. This is great! And like I always say SEE YOU AT THE TOP FELLAS!!!
PumpNightmare
Don Juan
14/21
Two weeks without a single orgasm. Feeling more anxious now. But I don't get vivid, sexual dreams. Simply weird, violent ones. Perhaps it's a sign I might really snap if someone pushings the right buttons...hopefuly not, I try to avoid fights.
Two weeks without a single orgasm. Feeling more anxious now. But I don't get vivid, sexual dreams. Simply weird, violent ones. Perhaps it's a sign I might really snap if someone pushings the right buttons...hopefuly not, I try to avoid fights.
Byezbozhniy
Don Juan
5/21. I'm approaching the point where I caved last time. I've been a lot busier this week though so I'm hardly noticing that I'm going without it.
15/21
NO ONE ANSWERED MY QUESTION!!!
When you end up getting a ONS, do you quickly JERK OFF before banging her? If I **** her straight up I'll blow my load as soon as I touch her tits. (given how long I havn't masturbated) Is there any shame in just rubbing one off all over her face in 10 sec? Do you tell her, etc.?
NO ONE ANSWERED MY QUESTION!!!
When you end up getting a ONS, do you quickly JERK OFF before banging her? If I **** her straight up I'll blow my load as soon as I touch her tits. (given how long I havn't masturbated) Is there any shame in just rubbing one off all over her face in 10 sec? Do you tell her, etc.?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
manbearpig
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I have a question, which is does anyone here have any real proof that masturbating is a drain on your testosterone other than immediately after you do it?
chickenlegs03
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nope. and you can never know until you try. it's more than just energy. some of it is a placebo effect. but self-discipline and using that time more productively that i would otherwise use to wack off...that's no placebo.manbearpig said:
btw, i'm on day 17 today.
i feel like a man
ok tomorrow is day 1 again:
omfg today I was taking a piss and just from holding my c0ck it got hard and i couldn't piss until like 2 min later and then it kept doing that i was like goddam. people were lookin at me weird cuz i stood therefor 10 minutes.
anyways, i get home, goddam i went crazy and jsut bust it like 5 times in a row and it was a FREAKING MESS goddammm
ok 21 days here i come 1/21
omfg today I was taking a piss and just from holding my c0ck it got hard and i couldn't piss until like 2 min later and then it kept doing that i was like goddam. people were lookin at me weird cuz i stood therefor 10 minutes.
anyways, i get home, goddam i went crazy and jsut bust it like 5 times in a row and it was a FREAKING MESS goddammm
ok 21 days here i come 1/21
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
chickenlegs03
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nice dude, that's awesome.Oxide said:
Friendly Otter
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7/21
One week! This is easier than I expected. I have a very strong libido, but I am determined to make it.
Against all advice I watch porn, and abort mission before ruining my statistics. I would simply be too bored if I didn't get to peruse my collection. I don't recommend this for anyone else, though.
Seeing as I had sex this weekend things got a little easier. But the results of the project so far:
--I actually think of sex less. I have noticed this other times when I have gone without whacking for ten days or so; perhaps it is simply a matter of thinking less of that which you don't do much of. However, I still desire sex as much as before. Just don't think about the desire much.
--Less procrastination. It is true that whacking off can be used to procrastinate when there's something you need to do.
--A greater incentive to get real sex
--Any time discipline beats desire your self-confidence gets a boost
--A kind of fresh and clean feeling. Like when you beat other habits, like cigarettes or sugar.
--Frustration!
Despite the frustration I am confident I can make it to a full three weeks, though.
One week! This is easier than I expected. I have a very strong libido, but I am determined to make it.
Against all advice I watch porn, and abort mission before ruining my statistics. I would simply be too bored if I didn't get to peruse my collection. I don't recommend this for anyone else, though.
Seeing as I had sex this weekend things got a little easier. But the results of the project so far:
--I actually think of sex less. I have noticed this other times when I have gone without whacking for ten days or so; perhaps it is simply a matter of thinking less of that which you don't do much of. However, I still desire sex as much as before. Just don't think about the desire much.
--Less procrastination. It is true that whacking off can be used to procrastinate when there's something you need to do.
--A greater incentive to get real sex
--Any time discipline beats desire your self-confidence gets a boost
--A kind of fresh and clean feeling. Like when you beat other habits, like cigarettes or sugar.
--Frustration!
Despite the frustration I am confident I can make it to a full three weeks, though.
bbestar
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Here is a quick tip from the man of the 150 day Elite Commanders Club. lol
The cure for morning wood is when you wake you... Hit the weights, and it should dissapear.. lol
The cure for morning wood is when you wake you... Hit the weights, and it should dissapear.. lol
PumpNightmare
Don Juan
15/21
My first day of summer semester will be my 21st day. I'm almost there. Will be difficult between Wed through Sun since I have no work or anything of importance to do. Need to make plans to stay out of the house by then.
My first day of summer semester will be my 21st day. I'm almost there. Will be difficult between Wed through Sun since I have no work or anything of importance to do. Need to make plans to stay out of the house by then.
20/21...Day Twenty...One more day to go guys...dreams still vivid, but not sexual lately. I remember my first week or two into this, I felt really emotional for a few days during that time. Just like when I was a vegetarian for a year and a half I became emotional in the beginning because I was detoxing. It was the same feeling. Anybody else felt like that?
I'm very glad to see many are doing so well in this thread, and that there's such an air of encouragement and solidarity here. This will free up a lot of time to get our goals accomplished in our lives that much faster...
SEE YOU AT THE TOP FELLAS!!!
I'm very glad to see many are doing so well in this thread, and that there's such an air of encouragement and solidarity here. This will free up a lot of time to get our goals accomplished in our lives that much faster...
SEE YOU AT THE TOP FELLAS!!!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.