"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Now on day 4/21. I believe I'm seeing slight energy increase. I woke up horny as all hell and couldn't seem to calm down. I ended up putitng on some cloths and ran a mile and half in 15 minutes this morning. And oddly enough, I did not sweat or breath as heavily as normal. I probably could of ran some more, but it got a little tension off of me.
 

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2/21. Eta ochyen harasho seychas. All my porn is gone. I'll be trying kino kino kino in the field tonight so hopefully I'll get some relief.
 

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Do you hear yourself? That doesn't even make sense. You've only been at it one week...I'm talking about over the long haul here. Wait til you get around that 2 week mark. Then you'll understand what I'm saying. Oxide deleted 30 gigs at first, yet *almost* lost it a few days ago (on his 16th day) to the porn he kept. And we haven't heard from him in a few days. If you wanna take that chance, that's completely up to you. Check the old posts in the other thread, the evidence is all there. Guys have already walked the road you're taking including myself. And check my first post in this thread, no judgements but be real with yourself. If you couldn't handle it up til now what makes this time any different? I just want to see you succeed.
thanks, I know you mean to help, and you've helped a great deal already by starting this thread.

The reason I want to keep my porn is because I paid for it. And might watch it again someday. I have a thing about watching porn with a girl, and maybe I'll do that down the road. I just won't touch it any more for now, and I know it's a greater temptation but I won't.

1/21 - 6/21: success
7/21: the day I stopped watching porn ...and will never watch again
8/21: (today, pending)
 
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from Sunday 16th of April

1 Done
2 Done
3 Done
4 Done
5 Done
6 Done
7 Done
8/21 Done
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Day Ten...today I accomplished what was my first mall approach in many years. I guess I felt self-concious with daygame in general or something and I let that stop me from cold approaching there in the past. But now, I'm breaking through this and doing what the hell I wanted to do...The transaction there went well, but the girl had a boyfriend. I'll be back out there next Saturday. Just earlier, this cute lady I know asked *me* out...so I have a date next week.

10/21...I'm officially at the halfway mark...see u at the top fellas!!!
 

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Does having wet dreams count? :crackup:
 

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5/21 21 april 06

feeling like the prince that i am:box:

6/21 22 april 06

having very sexy dreams. feeling horny lol
 

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3/21. Already starting to have peculiar dreams. I'm not sure if it's psycho-sematic or not but I'm starting to feel more energetic, particularly when training. Just two more days to go to break my record.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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To busy studying for finals to post yesterday. I'm on 6/21 now. I normaly feel tired on days like today because of my part time stock clerk job "2am for eight hours plus the 2.5 mile bike ride there and back. Instead of me feeling tired, I feel horny and energized as all hell. Once I'm done with finals, I might try to look into getting some friends going to a club..or something. I need to do something wtih this surpluss of energy.
 

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Woah!! Let's not discredit porn completely. Watching it with a girl can be some wonderful fore-foreplay.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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7/21

One week without masturbation I feel like I can rip the universe a new one. Once finals are over, I'm going to the arcade and letting out my agression on Pump It Up and see what my new found powers allow me to do.

Then possibly hit some bars afterwards. Or somewhere, I'm not sure. All I know is I have to keep my mind on my finals first. Might have to take down the suggestive wall scrolls and posters off my wall. They're not pr0n...but their stimulating enough. Been fine with them, but to be safe...
 

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4/21. Definitely feeling a lot better. Mondays in work are often mundane and energy draining but I feel alright today and I just had a pretty decent work-out. Also opened a few women on the train, but they were hardly worth #closing as they just weren't pretty enough. #closing with ugs is something I want to stay in the past. 24 more hours and I would've broken my all time record.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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