"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PumpNightmare

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Now on day 4/21. I believe I'm seeing slight energy increase. I woke up horny as all hell and couldn't seem to calm down. I ended up putitng on some cloths and ran a mile and half in 15 minutes this morning. And oddly enough, I did not sweat or breath as heavily as normal. I probably could of ran some more, but it got a little tension off of me.
 

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2/21. Eta ochyen harasho seychas. All my porn is gone. I'll be trying kino kino kino in the field tonight so hopefully I'll get some relief.
 

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Do you hear yourself? That doesn't even make sense. You've only been at it one week...I'm talking about over the long haul here. Wait til you get around that 2 week mark. Then you'll understand what I'm saying. Oxide deleted 30 gigs at first, yet *almost* lost it a few days ago (on his 16th day) to the porn he kept. And we haven't heard from him in a few days. If you wanna take that chance, that's completely up to you. Check the old posts in the other thread, the evidence is all there. Guys have already walked the road you're taking including myself. And check my first post in this thread, no judgements but be real with yourself. If you couldn't handle it up til now what makes this time any different? I just want to see you succeed.
thanks, I know you mean to help, and you've helped a great deal already by starting this thread.

The reason I want to keep my porn is because I paid for it. And might watch it again someday. I have a thing about watching porn with a girl, and maybe I'll do that down the road. I just won't touch it any more for now, and I know it's a greater temptation but I won't.

1/21 - 6/21: success
7/21: the day I stopped watching porn ...and will never watch again
8/21: (today, pending)
 
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from Sunday 16th of April

1 Done
2 Done
3 Done
4 Done
5 Done
6 Done
7 Done
8/21 Done
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Day Ten...today I accomplished what was my first mall approach in many years. I guess I felt self-concious with daygame in general or something and I let that stop me from cold approaching there in the past. But now, I'm breaking through this and doing what the hell I wanted to do...The transaction there went well, but the girl had a boyfriend. I'll be back out there next Saturday. Just earlier, this cute lady I know asked *me* out...so I have a date next week.

10/21...I'm officially at the halfway mark...see u at the top fellas!!!
 

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Does having wet dreams count? :crackup:
 

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5/21 21 april 06

feeling like the prince that i am:box:

6/21 22 april 06

having very sexy dreams. feeling horny lol
 

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3/21. Already starting to have peculiar dreams. I'm not sure if it's psycho-sematic or not but I'm starting to feel more energetic, particularly when training. Just two more days to go to break my record.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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To busy studying for finals to post yesterday. I'm on 6/21 now. I normaly feel tired on days like today because of my part time stock clerk job "2am for eight hours plus the 2.5 mile bike ride there and back. Instead of me feeling tired, I feel horny and energized as all hell. Once I'm done with finals, I might try to look into getting some friends going to a club..or something. I need to do something wtih this surpluss of energy.
 

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Woah!! Let's not discredit porn completely. Watching it with a girl can be some wonderful fore-foreplay.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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7/21

One week without masturbation I feel like I can rip the universe a new one. Once finals are over, I'm going to the arcade and letting out my agression on Pump It Up and see what my new found powers allow me to do.

Then possibly hit some bars afterwards. Or somewhere, I'm not sure. All I know is I have to keep my mind on my finals first. Might have to take down the suggestive wall scrolls and posters off my wall. They're not pr0n...but their stimulating enough. Been fine with them, but to be safe...
 

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4/21. Definitely feeling a lot better. Mondays in work are often mundane and energy draining but I feel alright today and I just had a pretty decent work-out. Also opened a few women on the train, but they were hardly worth #closing as they just weren't pretty enough. #closing with ugs is something I want to stay in the past. 24 more hours and I would've broken my all time record.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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