"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it kind of feels good to friendzone someone

harbinger

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I have female friend that I like a lot cause she's cool and nice and I know she's attracted to me but I am not attracted to her at all because of her "too nice/motherly" vibe and also she is not that hot, just average looking or below.

Once we had to sleep in the same bed and during the night she tried to get closer but I wasn't having it so she didn't insist (girls get hints much easily than we do)

Honestly anytime we hang out, I feel validated.

Should I **** her as friendly gesture or it will make the situation worse?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quit thinking your some "cool as fvck bro" because you turn down average looking women.....fvck her if you want to. Dont fvck her if you dont. Period.
 

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TheException said:
Quit thinking your some "cool as fvck bro" because you turn down average looking women.....fvck her if you want to. Dont fvck her if you dont. Period.
yerp

probably didnt need the help of a forum for that one
 

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TheException said:
Quit thinking your some "cool as fvck bro" because you turn down average looking women.....fvck her if you want to. Dont fvck her if you dont. Period.
Yes I think you're in the right on this

btw that girl, even though she is pretty average looking, is far from desperate. she showed me some messages a friend of hers sent on facebook, calling her beautiful and goddess and what not, she totally put him in her friendzone, she told me he has zero chance with her, because of this I don't really feel bad about rejecting her.
 
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