"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it kind of feels good to friendzone someone

harbinger

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I have female friend that I like a lot cause she's cool and nice and I know she's attracted to me but I am not attracted to her at all because of her "too nice/motherly" vibe and also she is not that hot, just average looking or below.

Once we had to sleep in the same bed and during the night she tried to get closer but I wasn't having it so she didn't insist (girls get hints much easily than we do)

Honestly anytime we hang out, I feel validated.

Should I **** her as friendly gesture or it will make the situation worse?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheException

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Quit thinking your some "cool as fvck bro" because you turn down average looking women.....fvck her if you want to. Dont fvck her if you dont. Period.
 

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TheException said:
Quit thinking your some "cool as fvck bro" because you turn down average looking women.....fvck her if you want to. Dont fvck her if you dont. Period.
yerp

probably didnt need the help of a forum for that one
 

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TheException said:
Quit thinking your some "cool as fvck bro" because you turn down average looking women.....fvck her if you want to. Dont fvck her if you dont. Period.
Yes I think you're in the right on this

btw that girl, even though she is pretty average looking, is far from desperate. she showed me some messages a friend of hers sent on facebook, calling her beautiful and goddess and what not, she totally put him in her friendzone, she told me he has zero chance with her, because of this I don't really feel bad about rejecting her.
 
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