Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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it kind of feels good to friendzone someone

harbinger

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I have female friend that I like a lot cause she's cool and nice and I know she's attracted to me but I am not attracted to her at all because of her "too nice/motherly" vibe and also she is not that hot, just average looking or below.

Once we had to sleep in the same bed and during the night she tried to get closer but I wasn't having it so she didn't insist (girls get hints much easily than we do)

Honestly anytime we hang out, I feel validated.

Should I **** her as friendly gesture or it will make the situation worse?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quit thinking your some "cool as fvck bro" because you turn down average looking women.....fvck her if you want to. Dont fvck her if you dont. Period.
 

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TheException said:
Quit thinking your some "cool as fvck bro" because you turn down average looking women.....fvck her if you want to. Dont fvck her if you dont. Period.
yerp

probably didnt need the help of a forum for that one
 

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TheException said:
Quit thinking your some "cool as fvck bro" because you turn down average looking women.....fvck her if you want to. Dont fvck her if you dont. Period.
Yes I think you're in the right on this

btw that girl, even though she is pretty average looking, is far from desperate. she showed me some messages a friend of hers sent on facebook, calling her beautiful and goddess and what not, she totally put him in her friendzone, she told me he has zero chance with her, because of this I don't really feel bad about rejecting her.
 
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