Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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It is more likely for an average girl to be b1tchy than an above average one

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attention *****.........jedi levels of getting attention, that will make you think W.T.F is she doing? why is she ruining this? why is she entertaining ugly guys? etc etc
never really understood the reason for doing this , especially since you are not showing attitude yourself

I guess the only plausible thing is that it makes them good about themselves when they are doing this to someone they perceive as higher value

I would say is the same thing with men when they have a bad attitude to someone that is richer than them , so they can feel good about themselves

something along the lines “ he is higher value than me only because he is richer , if I would have the money for sure I would be better than him “
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Was browsing through social media , and at some point I found out that a girl that I met at a wedding like 2 years ago got married

This was a girl that I did not wanted to hit on , just tried to be social and she just gave me a bad attitude for no reason

moving fast forward I see that she got married in like 1 year from meeting the guy , and this guy is not attractive at all . He is quite fat , no style , not naturally handsome , average job etc . He is super tall to be frank , but besides this I would say that he is at most an average guy . Compared to him I am way above his league

in the meantime I see that she also got quite fat from what I can see

I laugh when I see this , but I remember that when this happened I was a little bit shooked by the attitude , as i just came out from quite a hard brakeup
 
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