“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bawb14

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Its over and it had to be over, but it still hurts. Is there anyone that can say something to make it better =(( :cry: :cry: :cry:

btw she really was better then the rest of them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LOL. man this site can be so funny at times.

chin up kid. it will get better with time.
 

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stop thinking about her, stay busy, wtf u doing on the net, go run, go for a jog, or go do somebody in the bum
 

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Im still hurt as well man... I posted it up dude.

Let it go and You will feel better.

Dont call her or anything.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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broken dreams

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I guess cause he is still seeing her in his mind ...while taking a dump.
Im actually going to the gym more and fixing up my place.

Getting my life back.
 

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If she didn't see the value of the relationship, then she isn't anything special. If you want to get over her, you should stop and think about the fact that you were not the first guy. Another guy came before you who she really liked but things ended between them (if she told you otherwise, don't believe it). Think about the fact that this guy is most likely over her and in a new relationship and how ridiculous it is for you to not be doing the same thing.
 

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jack daniels and a handgun will do the job of getting her off your mind.

just kidding.


you might as well get used to it, we all get burned at some point in our lives, most guys get burned multiple times in their lives.
 

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As I once drunkenly advised a friend "there's plenty of more fish in the toilet".

It happens man. There will be those one's that just get you right at the core and you might feel like life will never be worth living. You just have to solider on. Just focus on yourself for the time. Do something you've always wanted to do, start exercising, keep your mind going. The pain will start to fade, and you'll start thinking "Maybe, she wasn't that great after all."

Then one morning you wake up and you realize you've moved on, and you'll be much better for it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bawb14 said:
Is there anyone that can say something to make it better

Yes Bob, there is. Deep within Summerset Forrest, there lies an old warlock who lives in a hut of stone. Speak with him. When you hear his voice, you will automatically feel better and have six orgasms.
 

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Yeah I guess. I might try for the warlock who lives in the stone hut, but otherwise not much to do. Sh1t sucks tho.
 

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Go NC, work on yourself. Give it time, you WILL get better bro. Keep your chin up.
 

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Bawb14 said:
Its over and it had to be over, but it still hurts. Is there anyone that can say something to make it better =(( :cry: :cry: :cry:

btw she really was better then the rest of them.
It's not over...it's not over...it can't be over...we had to chance to make it...it's not over...it's NOT over...it's not over...I wish that I could take it back...

I understand man. Evaluate how it ended. Know that you did everything you possibly could on your end to make it work. Understand that it takes 2 people to start a relationship, but only one discordant person to end it. Understand that she may of became discordant for her own problems, not problems you caused. This may not be entirely your fault.
 
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