"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It hurts
- Thread starter Bawb14
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
broken dreams
Senior Don Juan
Let it go and You will feel better.
Dont call her or anything.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
broken dreams
Senior Don Juan
Im actually going to the gym more and fixing up my place.
Getting my life back.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
just kidding.
you might as well get used to it, we all get burned at some point in our lives, most guys get burned multiple times in their lives.
theunflushables
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It happens man. There will be those one's that just get you right at the core and you might feel like life will never be worth living. You just have to solider on. Just focus on yourself for the time. Do something you've always wanted to do, start exercising, keep your mind going. The pain will start to fade, and you'll start thinking "Maybe, she wasn't that great after all."
Then one morning you wake up and you realize you've moved on, and you'll be much better for it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
guywhoneedshelp
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It's not over...it's not over...it can't be over...we had to chance to make it...it's not over...it's NOT over...it's not over...I wish that I could take it back...Bawb14 said:Its over and it had to be over, but it still hurts. Is there anyone that can say something to make it better =((
btw she really was better then the rest of them.
I understand man. Evaluate how it ended. Know that you did everything you possibly could on your end to make it work. Understand that it takes 2 people to start a relationship, but only one discordant person to end it. Understand that she may of became discordant for her own problems, not problems you caused. This may not be entirely your fault.