"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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Gentleman,
For those of you who know me, I wish to extend my fullest gratatude for aiding me in these last months... life is funny sometimes.

To those unfamiliar with me and my writing, I am Anthony - Tony, if you will - and I am one of the original members of the High School Forum, creater of the High School Don Juan Bible, and author of a few incredibly anally retentive technique posts. I am not a nice person. Nice to meet you =)

I will be sticking around for long enough to articulate what I have learned as well as revivify the old school topics that made this forum so great, back when Y2K-alerts were all the rage.

I am also reinstating my policy of instant communication/tutoring over AIM. Any questions about my articles, random death threats, whatever... don't hesitate to drop me a line @ tonythetigeroi (AIM SN).

-Anthony
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tactic

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Hello
 

NYC Dude

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Nice to see you back Anthony.
 

Smooth as Anything

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:)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You promised us a ground breaking, huge post last time you popped up.

I hope we get it this time.
 

Eternal

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No one can stay away...It's like a gang. Once you are in it...You are in it for life.

PS - Welcome back.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
No one can stay away...It's like a gang. Once you are in it...You are in it for life.

PS - Welcome back.
At least thats true for this site =D, and I'm another proof hehe.
This forum is too awesome
 
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