I remember 3 years ago a girl dumped me. Poor AFC cried,begged,chased her,I was insane. Now three years later I worked so much on myself and right now I have 4 girls I am pursuing but somehow it feels not wrong not,how to describe? It feels weird not to give a **** about beautiful girls all the guys around me are going crazy about. Did you have this too?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It feels unreal.
- Thread starter jebach123
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Serenity
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Welcome to the other side, yes I had this too.
Desdinova
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Yup. I remember the first time I found myself dating two women at once. I was surprised and excited about the prospect. I didn't even feel like a crumb. I felt like I had actually made progression in my life and that I was on the right track in solving my woman problems.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Your in the zone
I give less f*cks with every passing day. Its normal and part of being seasoned.
Don't reject the indifference you feel. Embrace it and use it to your advantage. Now that women take less of your emotional energy.. you can shift your focus to important things like your career, education or whatever goals you have.
Don't reject the indifference you feel. Embrace it and use it to your advantage. Now that women take less of your emotional energy.. you can shift your focus to important things like your career, education or whatever goals you have.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
sex is like oxygen, it's only important when you're not getting any