I remember 3 years ago a girl dumped me. Poor AFC cried,begged,chased her,I was insane. Now three years later I worked so much on myself and right now I have 4 girls I am pursuing but somehow it feels not wrong not,how to describe? It feels weird not to give a **** about beautiful girls all the guys around me are going crazy about. Did you have this too?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It feels unreal.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Serenity
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Welcome to the other side, yes I had this too.
Desdinova
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Yup. I remember the first time I found myself dating two women at once. I was surprised and excited about the prospect. I didn't even feel like a crumb. I felt like I had actually made progression in my life and that I was on the right track in solving my woman problems.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Your in the zone
I give less f*cks with every passing day. Its normal and part of being seasoned.
Don't reject the indifference you feel. Embrace it and use it to your advantage. Now that women take less of your emotional energy.. you can shift your focus to important things like your career, education or whatever goals you have.
Don't reject the indifference you feel. Embrace it and use it to your advantage. Now that women take less of your emotional energy.. you can shift your focus to important things like your career, education or whatever goals you have.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
sex is like oxygen, it's only important when you're not getting any