I remember 3 years ago a girl dumped me. Poor AFC cried,begged,chased her,I was insane. Now three years later I worked so much on myself and right now I have 4 girls I am pursuing but somehow it feels not wrong not,how to describe? It feels weird not to give a **** about beautiful girls all the guys around me are going crazy about. Did you have this too?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It feels unreal.
- Thread starter jebach123
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Serenity
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Welcome to the other side, yes I had this too.
Desdinova
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Yup. I remember the first time I found myself dating two women at once. I was surprised and excited about the prospect. I didn't even feel like a crumb. I felt like I had actually made progression in my life and that I was on the right track in solving my woman problems.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Your in the zone
I give less f*cks with every passing day. Its normal and part of being seasoned.
Don't reject the indifference you feel. Embrace it and use it to your advantage. Now that women take less of your emotional energy.. you can shift your focus to important things like your career, education or whatever goals you have.
Don't reject the indifference you feel. Embrace it and use it to your advantage. Now that women take less of your emotional energy.. you can shift your focus to important things like your career, education or whatever goals you have.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
sex is like oxygen, it's only important when you're not getting any