“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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it feels so good getting at a former one-itis

ye yeah

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Hey to all that read the "i sent a drunk "i love you" email"

just an update,it has taken me ages but i finally got her out of my life,after several arguments after she hated me for sending her that email,she provoked me into a fight on msn for no reason,and i retaliated and said "how about you **** off,before i lose any more respect for you?" and she said "fine *with one of those disappointed faces*..

and she never wrote again,im guessing trying to play on my afc-ness and get me to say sorry..

then tonight on msn,i asked her "are we are still friends?"

her-not at this moment,maybe laaater
me-so i try to be reasonable and this is what i get for my efforts?

she blocked me then

so i sent her an email saying "blocked me? ok then deal,friendships over....merry Christmas"

lol,and deleted her straight off of my myspace,dont feel any care about it whatsoever anymore, thank you s.s
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you shouldn't have asked if you were still friends or sent an email saying blocked me? it showed your one-itis and gave her the upper hand.
 

Byezbozhniy

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Ye Yeah, you're still coming across AFC. You come across as bitter and rather desperate. The way to conquer oneitis isn't to keep arguing with the girl and trying to get the upper hand. You need to stop talking about her and stop thinking about her. The only way to do this is to NEXT her and start seeing other girls.

At the moment, it seems to me that if she e-mailed you saying, "Hi, I over-reacted to your e-mail and I'm sorry. I value you as a friend and don't want to lose you," then you would be sucked right back in.
 
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