Still something that's hard for me. At some points when I feel like I have built enough rapport, I want to isolate. But how? I'm not a good liar, so when I say stuff like "hey I wanna show you something" it'll sound sh*tty. Help me with this sh*t.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Isolating
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
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War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Just walk away, don't even tell her you're gonna go away. Then come back when it's convenient for you.
hey try this....
talk to her about something crazy...something fun ...
and then dare her that she won't be able to do it...
and then may be mention any of your common girl friend who'd be game for it...neg her a little (fun way though)....
works for me ....!!!
talk to her about something crazy...something fun ...
and then dare her that she won't be able to do it...
and then may be mention any of your common girl friend who'd be game for it...neg her a little (fun way though)....
works for me ....!!!
Magma
Senior Don Juan
Here's a technique that works for me. I am going to assume you talking about a club/bar setting.
If there is music playing, I will take her by the hand and give her a little spin a la jitterbug style. What I am trying to do is get her back turned to the rest of the bar/club so that she is focusing on me, and me only. So I will spin with her and reposition my own body if need be to achieve this.
Basically, I am slyly repositioning our bodies so that my back is literally against the wall while she faces me and her back is to the rest of the club. It takes her attention and places it squarely on me instead of other guys and the surrounding environment. It isolates, initiates kino, and builds attraction all in one shot. A powerful move indeed.
If there is music playing, I will take her by the hand and give her a little spin a la jitterbug style. What I am trying to do is get her back turned to the rest of the bar/club so that she is focusing on me, and me only. So I will spin with her and reposition my own body if need be to achieve this.
Basically, I am slyly repositioning our bodies so that my back is literally against the wall while she faces me and her back is to the rest of the club. It takes her attention and places it squarely on me instead of other guys and the surrounding environment. It isolates, initiates kino, and builds attraction all in one shot. A powerful move indeed.
Magma
Senior Don Juan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but once she's ready to be isolated I don't think it matters much what you say. Depending on how drunk I am, I might just spit out, "Hey...." Then grab her hand and go in for the slow smoochies on the back of her neck.
My roommate is right next to me and that prick just says suck my ****. haha
My roommate is right next to me and that prick just says suck my ****. haha
Oh and getting her there--I don't think I've said it like that since I was in high school cause it feels awkward. I'd at least switch it around to "so show me the place" or "how about a tour"... anything lame works if the mood is set.
Said what like that? You mean like 'hey i gonna show you something'? I don't understand....I don't think I've said it like that since I was in high school cause it feels awkward.