Still something that's hard for me. At some points when I feel like I have built enough rapport, I want to isolate. But how? I'm not a good liar, so when I say stuff like "hey I wanna show you something" it'll sound sh*tty. Help me with this sh*t.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Isolating
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Just walk away, don't even tell her you're gonna go away. Then come back when it's convenient for you.
hey try this....
talk to her about something crazy...something fun ...
and then dare her that she won't be able to do it...
and then may be mention any of your common girl friend who'd be game for it...neg her a little (fun way though)....
works for me ....!!!
talk to her about something crazy...something fun ...
and then dare her that she won't be able to do it...
and then may be mention any of your common girl friend who'd be game for it...neg her a little (fun way though)....
works for me ....!!!
Magma
Senior Don Juan
Here's a technique that works for me. I am going to assume you talking about a club/bar setting.
If there is music playing, I will take her by the hand and give her a little spin a la jitterbug style. What I am trying to do is get her back turned to the rest of the bar/club so that she is focusing on me, and me only. So I will spin with her and reposition my own body if need be to achieve this.
Basically, I am slyly repositioning our bodies so that my back is literally against the wall while she faces me and her back is to the rest of the club. It takes her attention and places it squarely on me instead of other guys and the surrounding environment. It isolates, initiates kino, and builds attraction all in one shot. A powerful move indeed.
If there is music playing, I will take her by the hand and give her a little spin a la jitterbug style. What I am trying to do is get her back turned to the rest of the bar/club so that she is focusing on me, and me only. So I will spin with her and reposition my own body if need be to achieve this.
Basically, I am slyly repositioning our bodies so that my back is literally against the wall while she faces me and her back is to the rest of the club. It takes her attention and places it squarely on me instead of other guys and the surrounding environment. It isolates, initiates kino, and builds attraction all in one shot. A powerful move indeed.
Magma
Senior Don Juan
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but once she's ready to be isolated I don't think it matters much what you say. Depending on how drunk I am, I might just spit out, "Hey...." Then grab her hand and go in for the slow smoochies on the back of her neck.
My roommate is right next to me and that prick just says suck my ****. haha
My roommate is right next to me and that prick just says suck my ****. haha
Oh and getting her there--I don't think I've said it like that since I was in high school cause it feels awkward. I'd at least switch it around to "so show me the place" or "how about a tour"... anything lame works if the mood is set.
Said what like that? You mean like 'hey i gonna show you something'? I don't understand....I don't think I've said it like that since I was in high school cause it feels awkward.