Still something that's hard for me. At some points when I feel like I have built enough rapport, I want to isolate. But how? I'm not a good liar, so when I say stuff like "hey I wanna show you something" it'll sound sh*tty. Help me with this sh*t.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Isolating
- Thread starter snowdog
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Just walk away, don't even tell her you're gonna go away. Then come back when it's convenient for you.
hey try this....
talk to her about something crazy...something fun ...
and then dare her that she won't be able to do it...
and then may be mention any of your common girl friend who'd be game for it...neg her a little (fun way though)....
works for me ....!!!
talk to her about something crazy...something fun ...
and then dare her that she won't be able to do it...
and then may be mention any of your common girl friend who'd be game for it...neg her a little (fun way though)....
works for me ....!!!
Magma
Senior Don Juan
Here's a technique that works for me. I am going to assume you talking about a club/bar setting.
If there is music playing, I will take her by the hand and give her a little spin a la jitterbug style. What I am trying to do is get her back turned to the rest of the bar/club so that she is focusing on me, and me only. So I will spin with her and reposition my own body if need be to achieve this.
Basically, I am slyly repositioning our bodies so that my back is literally against the wall while she faces me and her back is to the rest of the club. It takes her attention and places it squarely on me instead of other guys and the surrounding environment. It isolates, initiates kino, and builds attraction all in one shot. A powerful move indeed.
If there is music playing, I will take her by the hand and give her a little spin a la jitterbug style. What I am trying to do is get her back turned to the rest of the bar/club so that she is focusing on me, and me only. So I will spin with her and reposition my own body if need be to achieve this.
Basically, I am slyly repositioning our bodies so that my back is literally against the wall while she faces me and her back is to the rest of the club. It takes her attention and places it squarely on me instead of other guys and the surrounding environment. It isolates, initiates kino, and builds attraction all in one shot. A powerful move indeed.
Magma
Senior Don Juan
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but once she's ready to be isolated I don't think it matters much what you say. Depending on how drunk I am, I might just spit out, "Hey...." Then grab her hand and go in for the slow smoochies on the back of her neck.
My roommate is right next to me and that prick just says suck my ****. haha
My roommate is right next to me and that prick just says suck my ****. haha
Oh and getting her there--I don't think I've said it like that since I was in high school cause it feels awkward. I'd at least switch it around to "so show me the place" or "how about a tour"... anything lame works if the mood is set.
Said what like that? You mean like 'hey i gonna show you something'? I don't understand....I don't think I've said it like that since I was in high school cause it feels awkward.