jafyk
Master Don Juan
I came across this video http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/video/polyamory-end-marriage-21013545 and it got me thinking that this is what most of you guys on sosuave want. Am I wrong? If so, why?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Isn't the poly-amorous life what you guys crave?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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The amorous life I crave is something sane and balanced, Im fine staying in a long term with a girl as long as its everything at my terms and in return Im gonna take care of her and not cheat.
Given this circumstances unable to be fulfilled I would simply opt for a hassle free dating life with many girls which are fine in being in a fvck buddy relationship, no lies no mind games no bvllsh1t.
Its totally pointless to have a second class relationship where you are not exclusive, it would be like subscribe to cable tv but still have to see plenty of commercials and pay minimum fees.
Given this circumstances unable to be fulfilled I would simply opt for a hassle free dating life with many girls which are fine in being in a fvck buddy relationship, no lies no mind games no bvllsh1t.
Its totally pointless to have a second class relationship where you are not exclusive, it would be like subscribe to cable tv but still have to see plenty of commercials and pay minimum fees.