jafyk
Master Don Juan
I came across this video http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/video/polyamory-end-marriage-21013545 and it got me thinking that this is what most of you guys on sosuave want. Am I wrong? If so, why?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Isn't the poly-amorous life what you guys crave?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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The amorous life I crave is something sane and balanced, Im fine staying in a long term with a girl as long as its everything at my terms and in return Im gonna take care of her and not cheat.
Given this circumstances unable to be fulfilled I would simply opt for a hassle free dating life with many girls which are fine in being in a fvck buddy relationship, no lies no mind games no bvllsh1t.
Its totally pointless to have a second class relationship where you are not exclusive, it would be like subscribe to cable tv but still have to see plenty of commercials and pay minimum fees.
Given this circumstances unable to be fulfilled I would simply opt for a hassle free dating life with many girls which are fine in being in a fvck buddy relationship, no lies no mind games no bvllsh1t.
Its totally pointless to have a second class relationship where you are not exclusive, it would be like subscribe to cable tv but still have to see plenty of commercials and pay minimum fees.